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I’m 3 weeks postpartum and I did something at 3am that made me feel a little crazy. I counted how many people have come over since we brought the baby home. Eleven people have walked into our house. Some brought food. Some brought gifts. Some drove a long way just to meet him. Everyone has been excited and kind and genuinely happy for us. And every single one wanted to hold him. Which I love. Seriously. I love that my baby has this many people who already love him. But sitting there in the nursery last night, I realized something that made my stomach drop a little. Not one of those 11 people asked how I was doing. Not one. They asked how he was sleeping. How breastfeeding was going. If he was gaining weight. If he was a “good baby.” How often he wakes up. Whether he likes the bassinet. They asked if they could hold him. They told me how beautiful he is. And again, none of that is bad. But nobody looked at me and said: “How are YOU doing?” So I counted. Then I immediately felt guilty for counting. 😂 Because these are people who love me. Nobody is intentionally ignoring me. And what am I supposed to say anyway? “I’m great except I’m bleeding and exhausted and my boobs hurt and I cried yesterday because I couldn’t find the lid to my water bottle.” I’m probably just going to say “good!” like every other new mom. But I think I wanted someone to ask anyway. At 3am, while I was feeding him, I typed it anonymously into this app. Basically exactly that. “3 weeks in. 11 people have come to hold him. not one has asked how i’m doing. i counted. i’m fine i just needed to say that somewhere.” I almost deleted it. It sounded petty when I reread it. Then a mom from Michigan replied. She said: “i counted too. 14 for me.” 😭 Then she told me her mother-in-law asked if she was “bouncing back” while she was literally holding a peri bottle. And that nobody asked her a single thing until a stranger on the app did at 2am. Then she asked me: “so. how are you actually. not him. you.” I just stared at my phone. Because there it was. The question I’d apparently been waiting three weeks for. From a woman I’ve never met. I don’t know what she looks like. I don’t know her baby’s name. I don’t even know where in Michigan she lives. I found her because this app has a map showing other moms who are awake, and somehow this complete stranger understood exactly what I couldn’t explain to the people standing in my own living room. There’s something so weird about becoming a mom. For nine months, everyone asks about you. How are YOU feeling? Are YOU sleeping? Are YOU uncomfortable? What are YOU craving? Then the baby arrives and suddenly every conversation starts with him. And I get it. He’s new. He’s tiny. He’s perfect. I want everyone to love him. But I’m new too. I’m learning how to be somebody’s mom while recovering in a body I barely recognize. I’m feeding another human with it. I’m waking up every couple hours. I’m googling things at 2am that would’ve sounded insane to me six months ago. I’m trying to figure out whether I’m doing any of this right. And sometimes I don’t need advice. I don’t need someone to fix anything. I don’t need someone to tell me how quickly this season goes. I just want someone to notice that I’m in the room too. That mom from Michigan did. At probably the loneliest hour of the night. And honestly? That tiny conversation meant more to me than she probably knows. So if you’re going to visit someone who just had a baby, bring the casserole. Bring the diapers. Hold the baby so she can shower. Tell her how beautiful her baby is. But sometime before you leave, look at HER. And ask: “How are you actually doing?” Then give her enough time to answer something other than “good.” Because everyone remembers to check on the baby. Sometimes mom needs someone to remember she was born that day too. 💛 #mom #baby #MomsofTikTok #momtok #momlife
I’m 3 weeks postpartum and I did something at 3am that made me feel a little crazy. I counted how many people have come over since we brought the baby home. Eleven people have walked into our house. Some brought food. Some brought gifts. Some drove a long way just to meet him. Everyone has been excited and kind and genuinely happy for us. And every single one wanted to hold him. Which I love. Seriously. I love that my baby has this many people who already love him. But sitting there in the nursery last night, I realized something that made my stomach drop a little. Not one of those 11 people asked how I was doing. Not one. They asked how he was sleeping. How breastfeeding was going. If he was gaining weight. If he was a “good baby.” How often he wakes up. Whether he likes the bassinet. They asked if they could hold him. They told me how beautiful he is. And again, none of that is bad. But nobody looked at me and said: “How are YOU doing?” So I counted. Then I immediately felt guilty for counting. 😂 Because these are people who love me. Nobody is intentionally ignoring me. And what am I supposed to say anyway? “I’m great except I’m bleeding and exhausted and my boobs hurt and I cried yesterday because I couldn’t find the lid to my water bottle.” I’m probably just going to say “good!” like every other new mom. But I think I wanted someone to ask anyway. At 3am, while I was feeding him, I typed it anonymously into this app. Basically exactly that. “3 weeks in. 11 people have come to hold him. not one has asked how i’m doing. i counted. i’m fine i just needed to say that somewhere.” I almost deleted it. It sounded petty when I reread it. Then a mom from Michigan replied. She said: “i counted too. 14 for me.” 😭 Then she told me her mother-in-law asked if she was “bouncing back” while she was literally holding a peri bottle. And that nobody asked her a single thing until a stranger on the app did at 2am. Then she asked me: “so. how are you actually. not him. you.” I just stared at my phone. Because there it was. The question I’d apparently been waiting three weeks for. From a woman I’ve never met. I don’t know what she looks like. I don’t know her baby’s name. I don’t even know where in Michigan she lives. I found her because this app has a map showing other moms who are awake, and somehow this complete stranger understood exactly what I couldn’t explain to the people standing in my own living room. There’s something so weird about becoming a mom. For nine months, everyone asks about you. How are YOU feeling? Are YOU sleeping? Are YOU uncomfortable? What are YOU craving? Then the baby arrives and suddenly every conversation starts with him. And I get it. He’s new. He’s tiny. He’s perfect. I want everyone to love him. But I’m new too. I’m learning how to be somebody’s mom while recovering in a body I barely recognize. I’m feeding another human with it. I’m waking up every couple hours. I’m googling things at 2am that would’ve sounded insane to me six months ago. I’m trying to figure out whether I’m doing any of this right. And sometimes I don’t need advice. I don’t need someone to fix anything. I don’t need someone to tell me how quickly this season goes. I just want someone to notice that I’m in the room too. That mom from Michigan did. At probably the loneliest hour of the night. And honestly? That tiny conversation meant more to me than she probably knows. So if you’re going to visit someone who just had a baby, bring the casserole. Bring the diapers. Hold the baby so she can shower. Tell her how beautiful her baby is. But sometime before you leave, look at HER. And ask: “How are you actually doing?” Then give her enough time to answer something other than “good.” Because everyone remembers to check on the baby. Sometimes mom needs someone to remember she was born that day too. 💛 #mom #baby #MomsofTikTok #momtok #momlife

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