@coachkatedurocher: The wedding planning process has not been easy for me. The planning portion has been a breeze and so much fun for my type A self, but the disappointment from people has been heartbreaking to encounter. I haven’t learned the lessons I need to from this experience yet, so I have very few helpful things to share as of now. But I’ve always brought you guys into my journey and wanted to do the same when it comes to wedding stuff too. I also know there are so many other brides or married couples on here who can relate, you aren’t alone. This is the side of wedding planning we don’t talk about enough.
I’ve had soooo many breakdowns about this exact thing. No one talks about how selfish people can be during your wedding planning process and realizing people don’t care as much as you sucks🤍
2025-02-24 22:33:03
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Jess Griff :
Right there with you. My rsvp’s are coming in and half of my family isn’t attending. Then I looked how much of fiancé’s family will be there, and I thought to myself I am so lucky to now be part
2025-02-25 18:20:32
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Leah Nadu :
I totally know how you feel! One reason I don't have bridesmaids.
2025-03-01 12:26:10
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Helloitsme :
I’m already down a bridesmaid for my August 2025 wedding. The ugly comes out of people when you’re the center of attention.
2025-02-25 17:09:38
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dj :
The real problem is family and weddings. It’s a lot of unresolved trauma and inner work to do WHILE one is planning a whole wedding. Help us lord
2025-02-26 14:37:40
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julietnovbravo :
how do you plan a wedding if you dont have any friends to invite ..
2025-02-28 17:30:11
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Jaclyn Marie Valentin :
It is 2025 and we’re still making beautiful brides cry are we SERIOUS??
2025-02-25 23:04:34
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BeautybyBossy| 2025 Bride :
I’m learning that weddings bring out the worst in people. I actually am so glad that TikTok prepared me for it ahead of time so I’m not as surprised when it happens
2025-02-25 16:28:38
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Nicole Monteleone :
I’m not sure if you’ll see this comment but I completely understand how you feel as 2024 bride - not everyone can be as selfless and caring as you are - but I promise on your wedding day no matter
2025-02-28 18:08:03
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sarika :
I literally had a breakdown last night about my wedding and I just wanted to say I totally understand where you’re coming from, sending you positive energy!♥️
2025-02-24 18:55:00
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AA :
wedding planning really teaches u to have zero expectations of ppl🙄 especially family they act the worst cuz they think somehow being related means they can push your boundaries with no consequences.
2025-02-25 20:51:49
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Katy :
I think the best advice I got wedding planning is no one cares more about your wedding than you. Sad but true. People I who I was there for for their wedding didn’t end up being there for mine.
2025-02-25 23:17:32
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serena4sure :
1)Girl I completely understand March 8th 2025 is our wedding and I’ve lost bridesmaids ,uninvited family members due to rude comments on our relationship. The venue canceling on us 18 days before.
2025-02-28 01:43:03
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tyler :
This is exactly how my wedding planning process has been too. I’ve had to cut off all of my mom’s family (which was a long time coming anyway). But with the help of my therapist (I highly suggest…
2025-02-27 20:47:57
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Ash :
This was the hardest part. It took so long to happen for me, and I celebrated everyone else, when it was my turn, they didn’t show up for me. I will never forget the way people left me out to dry.
2025-02-28 13:43:52
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Jenny :
Omg girl. I FEEEEL you. I’m a DV/SA survivor and was a divorced from my abuser/single mom for 6 years before I got engaged to my now fiancé. In my HAPPY year, my parents of 30 years decided to
2025-02-27 04:55:13
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Amanda Alvarez :
Had my wedding this past weekend ( a perfect day) but a month before had so much unnecessary drama from family! They made me and my husband feel so terrible but in the end remember this is your day…
2025-02-27 17:04:47
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Sarah Jane :
Unfortunately the same thing happened for me, also a type A bride. Nobody cares about it more than you do, and you spend all the energy and time making it perfect. I had people rsvp yes and tell 1/2
2025-02-26 21:04:02
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Emily Fowler :
I’ve almost canceled my wedding twice after sending save the dates. I’ve had whole breakdowns. I’m dreading the day I’ve waited my whole life for. & going into debt for it. Nobody tells you about this
2025-02-26 21:29:39
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the_karma_revolution :
My own mother told me she wasn’t coming to my wedding. Because I asked the guests to wear black and she didn’t want to. So. Yeah I feel you.
2025-02-25 10:13:19
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Erica Luzetski :
June ‘25 bride & can totally relate..it’s a bittersweet experience but I am realizing who is in my corner & who isn’t.I know I’ll come out so much stronger with the right people at the end of the day
2025-02-25 12:39:06
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Bridneyona Arrington :
Completely understand, and family try to push your boundaries. Like why can’t you respect my answer and my wishes? Why are you causing my stress?!
2025-02-25 18:53:41
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Lexi 🙌🏼 :
I feel everything about this. People become evil during this stuff. It’s such a lonely thing. It’s been lonely for me too! We get married next week and are looking forward to who will be there. 1/2
2025-02-25 16:10:49
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Kristie🖤 :
Same thing is happening to me. I’m from Alabama but live in Minneapolis where the wedding will be. Everyone told me at Christmas they would fly up for our summer wedding, now that we’ve confirmed a…
2025-02-26 23:02:51
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☆ madz ☆ :
the caption is SO real. girl thank you for this. it’s the happiest time of my life but the tension, drama, etc. makes it so hard! i also haven’t learned anything from this lesson yet but i know i will
2025-02-27 01:23:54
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