@heyitsnardia: Avoidant Attachment isn’t about not needing love—it’s about fearing it. 💔 They don’t push people away because they don’t care. They do it because getting close has always felt like a risk. #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalHealing #AvoidantAttachment #FearOfIntimacy #TrustIssues #HealingAttachmentWounds

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mountain_lion555
Steve Sims :
Let me explain. We definitely do not actually need anyone since we have been doing everything ourselves our whole life. Part of thinks we should be able to live with someone but we are programmed
2025-02-28 15:24:37
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turnez1
Turnez :
Avoidants cause the pain and trauma to everyone else that they are protecting themselves from.
2025-03-23 10:15:14
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dunks_31
dunks_31 :
They already had someone while they was with you don’t be fooled I got played by my wife now ex
2025-02-27 21:51:42
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hyperactiveraver
Yumyum :
I had to turn my back on him. I feel bad for reinforcing his world view or making him feel unlovable. But he pushed me to. I wish I could fix his heart, but there’s nothing I can do
2025-03-01 01:55:09
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mary.ruzu
MaryRosiee :
🤦🏽‍♀️how do these ppl end up married then?
2025-03-01 03:29:21
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strandedshrimp
Stranded Shrimp :
She kept neglecting me and wanting space. I gave her space and she got comfortable for 2 years. had to break up even though I still love her. A month later she came back telling me she’s lonely
2025-03-17 22:40:54
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miles228
miles228 :
yes my caretaker abused me in a pretty terrible way, when I get to close I get absolutely terrified. It's really challenging to work through, I've got a bit better over the years
2025-03-27 23:20:47
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kshortsss
Kyrsti :
I'm not very good at being vulnerable and I am that way
2025-03-16 13:08:02
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capribabilicious
Capribabe :
worst, he’s an introvert who can just stay in his bedroom for days, without window, just a desktop
2025-03-07 05:24:37
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felicity2931
Felicity :
I've only just learnt that this is me. I'm 48 and have literally been guided by these feelings my whole life. When you're unaware it's survival, not intentional.
2025-02-26 09:12:43
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kaylastareoz
KStar🇨🇦 :
You can still end up like this overtime as an adult.
2025-02-25 21:18:57
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angela38153
Angela🌷🌺 :
It's working out better than being with someone, I can tell u that
2025-02-26 18:24:38
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sandilesali
sandilesali :
Don't demonize people's trauma. They are not responsible or self aware. They need to be helped from themselves through therapy . This is not permanent and once healed, a good, caring person emerges.
2025-03-15 09:34:42
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pollythestandardpoodle
Polly :
My husband to a tee!
2025-02-26 01:12:01
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sj_6813
SJ :
Exactly what happened to me recently. His walls were so high, I just couldn’t get over them. Was an emotional rollercoaster. He’s alone again just how he likes it.
2025-04-08 10:41:50
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natashalaranjeira
natashalaranjeira :
that may be their story but it doesn't have to be anyone else's story
2025-03-26 19:42:54
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steve_z962
Stevz :
This is so true….wish I knew what I was dealing with before I let myself get sucked into a relationship with an avoidant….cautionary tale 🤷🏻‍♂️
2025-03-19 10:56:58
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trueallen
Rain :
that's why don't get revenge to your avoidant ex, or even someone you got into a situationship with. their avoidant attachment is enough.
2025-03-10 18:59:34
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arthurwilliams81
Arthur Williams :
yup
2025-04-15 11:47:13
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kshortsss
Kyrsti :
I wish to change and not self sabotage
2025-04-03 02:19:49
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flessy22
Flessy :
🤷‍♂️
2025-03-27 13:43:13
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betawimodest
🌸 Umi Sumiyati 🕊️ :
is the avoidant type of person who enjoys only one night stand and never desires commitment ? but he's interested in having kids, just tired of this guy 🥺
2025-03-12 11:05:02
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bags557
Aaron Robert Bagshaw :
My DA just deactivated and blindsided me when she got too close, I could never break that wall down again, ‘ let’s be friends’ . Seek help or live alone.
2025-03-15 21:04:36
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slavkaz663
Lililian :
yep..stay alone
2025-03-23 22:02:47
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gkofficial.11
GK :
left broken by my avoidant. The most painful thing l have ever experienced. traumatized, abandoned.
2025-02-27 06:50:30
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kini911
Sapphô 🇨🇦 :
I was the most gentle,caring and affectionate towards my DA and she just deactivated on me... I think either she didnt feel worthy or didnt trust my actions were genuine
2025-02-26 07:42:13
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