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Nicole :
One of the issues I have is that to fully implement a behavior change I need time to reflect on it. I’ll accept feedback but often have clarifying questions a few days later which is not well received
2025-02-25 00:00:05
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AsaBassa :
as an autistic who dates autistics who refuse to adjust to stated boundaries, theres a lot of entitlement in the community. A lot of us will make excuses to avoid change instead of giving base respect
2025-02-25 10:21:46
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jorn :
this is very useful but at the same time seems to put a lot of labor on the allistic person. the emphasis should be mutual understanding. it's not fair to ask everything be brought up in the moment
2025-02-25 17:48:20
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hunter hues 🍉🏳️⚧️ :
Autism absolutely does not mean free from accountability. It is OUR responsibility, to pay attention to how we impact others, and to manage our behaviors to minimalize harm
2025-02-26 00:41:03
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thedadfriend :
Okay but I’m audhd and my lifetime of social conditioning and my pattern recognition has TAUGHT me what’s appropriate and what isn’t. Having to tell someone the same thing over and over again and have them still act in appropriately isn’t normal even for autistic people
2025-02-25 19:36:23
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Drea B :
As a AuDHD person the biggest difficulty I run into is encountering autistic people who believe they're exempt from accountability because they're autistic. "This is how I am" with no room for growth.
2025-02-25 17:42:45
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Zelduh (They/them) :
this is why it upsets me when people will say “i’m autistic and i don’t do that, it’s just common sense” yeah no that’s not how it works and there’s no such thing as common sense
2025-02-25 14:54:44
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sawdustplaya :
Hot tip: if someone says “this is inappropriate and here’s why”. Before asking clarifying questions, validate them in some way or make a statement to show you hear them. /1
2025-02-25 17:47:03
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