@justaskjefferson: how to respond when someone blames you for their actions #communicationskills #communicationtips #difficultconversations

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beachhappy00
Beachhappy :
My problem is I freeze.. I go blank.
2025-02-25 01:25:56
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jeremyaguirre50
justjim :
I love, " I'm willing to discuss your feelings. but I'm not willing to dismiss your conduct. " that was very helpful.
2025-02-25 23:49:01
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crystalanniesn
CRYSTAL STILLEY NEEL :
Good in theory but the stark-raving lunatics I know simply cannot listen to nor comprehend that many intelligent words spoken to them.
2025-02-25 08:55:24
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floppypuppy8
floppypuppy8 :
I had to talk to those women because you were mean to me and they were nice to me
2025-02-24 23:38:58
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brandi_351
Brandi :
The first part I still don’t get 😅 🤷‍♀️
2025-03-03 21:44:29
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djessiexoxo
DJess :
Your poor wife, she must NEVER win.
2025-02-25 22:38:26
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ginpink21
Ginny :
I need a section in my brain devoted to your responses.
2025-02-25 20:11:39
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tabathadanielle
tab :
I'm dealing with this right now. I don't want to walk away, but all he seems to want is to argue and tear me down but not accept responsibility for anything
2025-02-25 01:08:07
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no39001
no :
Sigh… if a woman says this to a man, she’ll be punished for it, one way or another. Please add a gender lens to your advice- we are 1/2 the population.
2025-02-25 00:21:50
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xbrowneyedgirl
G Zeke 🍋 :
I would just say “I don’t control your actions”
2025-02-28 20:11:36
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xtoombsx
Toombs :
You're to intimidating, you're fired. ture story
2025-02-25 02:33:28
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mari_franciscco
judge_mental :
1st make sure that the person did not disrespect the other that was triggered to yell coz it's just a normal human reaction. a person blaming others reaction 2 thier disrespect is a narc.
2025-02-26 00:31:44
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pennyloomcgoo
PennyLouMcGoo :
Willing to discuss;not willing to dismiss 👍🏽
2025-02-25 16:46:22
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hanna_rogalska_
hanna_rogalska_ :
Also if someone will say “I’m sorry that you felt that way” after they disrespected you. I always say “ don’t apologise for my feelings apologies for your behaviour “
2025-03-07 09:36:24
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irenebaron.com
irenebaron.com :
Your advice is always correct!
2025-02-25 11:53:31
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queenmerci7
Merci ❤️ :
That would only further trigger a narcissistic mother like mine
2025-02-27 19:48:30
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thompsonali
Alistair Thompson :
can't wait for the book next month!
2025-02-25 00:16:23
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juliebusick
juliebusick :
Jefferson, this is so valuable to me.
2025-02-25 02:14:59
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bnvivthepetstylist
VivianINrealLIFE :
I cannot take blame for how you choose to react 🥰🥰
2025-02-27 16:54:59
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4_cobi
Pamela :
Oh I’m going to need this tomorrow ❤️
2025-02-25 00:01:03
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sabrinacabrina
sabrinacabrina :
you one say... I can't take blame for how you choose to react?
2025-02-25 01:57:36
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fusionwalk
♡ Fusion walk ♡ :
This is a golden one! Thank you 🙏
2025-02-25 08:16:39
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iqmm.taoa
iqmmtaoa :
My problem is I freeze.. I go blank.
2025-03-28 08:57:46
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gwengbaddie
gwengbaddie :
It’s hard to think that fast when someone is throwing this at you. Trying to catch you off guard!
2025-02-26 02:08:55
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