just went through this and was discarded by the avoidant.
2025-02-25 00:13:41
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wnk874 :
Avoidants should only date other avoidants. They hurt secure people way too much and end up making them insecure.
2025-02-25 01:09:24
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Tim :
Familiar strangers
2025-02-25 03:41:44
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mapleserp :
and theyre always so blindsided no matter how you explain it to them. theyre hurt people who dont even know
2025-02-25 00:08:36
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Gabriela :
My spouse is an avoidant. Whenever they would tell me about their childhood, they always said their parents were always present and listened to them. So how did my partner become avoidant?
2025-02-25 01:51:29
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bicky Robby :
Hi it’s me avoidant
2025-02-25 00:23:24
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Tobe | Biz & Tech :
I identify mostly with avoidant traits, but some anxious ones as well. Not sure which I actually am.
2025-02-25 00:21:55
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T :
Does this count for fearful avoidants as well? Or is there a difference between the two avoidants?
2025-02-25 01:15:48
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Kay📚 :
If only I could send this without the shutdown and actually talk through things 😣
2025-02-25 00:12:26
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LotusOfControl :
This gives me enormous peace after just mutually ending a relationship with someone who has deep avoidant strategies. Especially the “biggest trigger”. May he find the security he didn’t have yet.
2025-02-25 00:38:56
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Lili_abeille :
I would love to see the disorganized attachment version please and thank you 🙏
2025-02-25 00:18:43
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Heather :
Is there a part 2? My boyfriend is like this however he has been willing to work on it but I need more information please
2025-02-25 00:35:09
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Lexi & Maui :
I’m glad I got out of my past relationship — but I wish I (we) had seen these videos back in the day. Might’ve been able to work our way out of this exact issue
2025-02-25 01:03:24
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ari :
I thought I was avoidant bc I was anxious before. I have my own life but I'm always talking things out and communicating. I'm securely attached. I did it.😭
2025-02-25 00:17:37
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Jen :
I’m an avoidant - or was - my hubby clung on like a barnacle the moment we met and now we’ve both been through therapy 😂 and are very happy and doing great 💜
2025-02-25 01:49:22
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N I C K :
😔 the silentest repost
2025-02-25 01:42:52
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westcoast :
why do people fantazise being single again?
2025-02-25 00:39:00
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Yumyum :
I wish I could send this to him
2025-02-25 02:32:06
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doeeatsworld :
Ouchie
2025-02-25 01:19:43
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soncerae27 :
Stooooop 😫🫠
2025-02-25 01:45:07
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Llie Wa :
🥺🥺🥺 it’s me 🙈 and other men I’ve dated as well.
2025-02-25 03:46:03
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fortyfivek :
hate that this is me. after my last relationship, i decided dating isn’t for me. nobody ever believes me when i say im single bc i genuinely want to be alone lol. i rather not hurt anybody else
2025-02-25 03:15:43
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Chloe :
Oh my. This is so me.
2025-02-25 03:07:58
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Karma-is-my-friend :
Gosh, my partner and I are avoidant, we've been in a relationship for a few months, but I don't see us living together.
2025-02-25 03:21:10
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