@glasswingorganics: It is so fucking hard to end certain behavior patterns, especially ones we've had the majority of our life. This is why I believe most people choose to stay alone bc it's easier. I get it 🥺 The patience, will, courage, and trust that goes into facing yourself and your behavior patterns time and time again with safe people can be downright exhausting. So we retract or blame the other person for being the toxic one and we go about our life repeating the patterns feeling justified yet nothing has really changed within us. It's too easy and as a primarily avoidant dismissive, I know that all too well. Even throwing in a little complexity with being anxious causes me to shut down and bail over the littlest things at times. I’m also a Pisces and we tend to be a little skiddish. 🏃🏾‍♀️💨 But the pattern doesn't disappear by just going to the next thing/person thinking it'll be different. The pattern changes when you truly face yourself and the root of your issues. So when you find people who are willing to sit with you in that space without necessarily wanting to fix or change you, they are assisting in rewiring how your nervous system not only receives safety but the love you've always desired as a kid from your primary parent/caregiver. This doesn't mean accepting abuse or mistreatment from someone bc they're healing nor does it mean you can be abusive or mistreat other people, but understanding that with the right people, we can heal core wounds. And sometimes it's not with a life partner or romantic partner at all… it is just as healing ❤️‍🩹 Sending love and light ❤️✨

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