But you ask someone “anything exciting lately” 9/10 times they’re gonna say “nothing much” lol & feel bad about themselves. Not to mention you’ll feel bad for asking
2025-04-23 04:43:34
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Gigi 🇵🇭✈️ :
so, id ask a stranger right away "anything exciting?" .. 😶
2025-02-26 06:07:51
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VirgoGoddess :
I cannot stand small talk.💯
2025-02-26 14:50:58
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coolmom :
I go directly to their traumas 😂
2025-11-27 23:08:31
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Risa :
I just cut to the chase now: "So. Do you watch TikToks?" If I'm lucky and they say yes then that opens up a whole plethora of things to chat about.
2025-03-12 10:28:08
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FresaRoja. :
I have to Ted talk my family now. thanks for all you videos❤️
2025-02-26 19:56:24
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Kat :
Bangles
2026-08-13 02:33:42
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Tianna ❤️❌❤️ :
What do we do when the positive questions render a negative response? As in, “nothing good here”, “don’t ask”, “I wish”, “It’s Friday & I don’t have to come back to work until Monday”?
2026-05-03 08:26:37
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Sam :
It’s so great to hear you, Vanessa! And Congrats on your class
2025-02-25 21:48:32
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All_Ways_Well :
I was at a bar on the upper west side many years ago, and it was a group of friends and their friends so everyone was sort of connected and a guy came up to me and asked, “are you currently in love” and honestly, it was so remarkable to be asked that question and we just started talking about being in love. ♥️
2026-04-29 17:00:57
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disneytrainer :
Absolutely love this content! 💯🔥
2025-03-11 01:52:27
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Desiree | Life Coaching :
this is very insightful.
2025-02-26 18:31:58
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I’mthefinewine🥂 :
The Black Halo dress🤌🏻
2025-02-26 02:27:10
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Ball(s) :
As an introvert I’ll be using all of the original questions. I don’t actually want to know about other ppl.
2025-04-11 09:41:12
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theunstuckjourney :
As someone who did hair for 20+ years, I always asked about their Hobbies or what they like to do with their spare time.
2025-03-14 07:11:09
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@$# :
this aligns perfectly with neurodivergents hating small talk while also being able to connect on a soul level with others within minutes
2025-03-14 06:18:25
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Scott | Verified Expansion™ :
Brilliant and a game changer
2025-02-25 23:03:54
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Tracy Lee :
I can't stand those questions that make me nauseous
2025-11-24 03:51:13
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jenn 🇨🇦 :
this is automatic for me—a fawning response from childhood. i had no idea being memorable was a side effect.
2025-11-25 03:56:41
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MichaelInHisMind :
This is very good advice. Thank you for your research.
2025-10-29 12:32:16
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MrSossidge :
Working on anything exciting? No, because my life is boring.
2025-04-23 06:29:18
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NicoleDechele :
Not my coworker. Every time I ask him a question like “ you excited for the weekend?” He answers the same thing every time no matter what I ask like “no not much. You?” 🤦🏾♀️
2025-12-29 05:27:12
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韩美黎 :
You are famous in China🥰
2025-10-12 07:42:54
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