@arieltusa: Me, learning about the 30% rule: Ah, so THAT’S why I overthink every text. —— And also recognizing that beaking cycles means giving myself the security I never had. #InnerChildWork #GenerationalHealing #AttachmentIssues

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cranky.mandrake
cranky.mandrake :
well this hit me like a brick to the face
2025-02-26 19:36:19
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riss_ugh
Riss (she/her) :
Oh wait this is upsetting
2025-02-26 15:35:34
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kparker.13
Kenzie Parker :
this just pmo. off to start an argument w my parents
2025-02-27 13:28:09
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bhv8503
Brittany :
That actually helps with the mom guilt. We can’t be perfect all the time but I’d like to think I’m good 80% of the time. Solid B mom.
2025-02-26 05:27:29
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kayybai
kayybai :
I feel like they had it until I started to become a teenager and stopped being the happy agreeable little kid. I wasn’t even rebellious, I just questioned and had differing opinions and views.
2025-02-27 03:54:41
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gingin1996
Gingin🌻 :
The bar was literally in hell and neither of them could do it 🫠🫣
2025-02-27 09:14:51
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winter_skye21
Winter_Skye21🆘🇺🇸 :
Did you just punch me in the face?
2025-02-27 05:03:30
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rocketkira
Masquerian :
I hear these things and think ‘damn they didn’t spend no time on me’ while daily thinking about how I would sit at the top of the basement stairs crying for my dad to play a game with me cause he-
2025-02-27 10:08:12
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3rachamatchamango
! • 宁阳 • Nìng Yáng • ! :
oh see I had it so bad cuz I was taken by cps
2025-02-27 10:26:23
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mckennasorensen1
Kit :
oh shit... well at least now I know that it was indeed emotional neglect and not my being a difficult child
2025-02-27 01:24:37
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willdrawformoney
Fletcher :
I think my dad sees how we treat my niece and nephew and he's finally understanding that he wasn't the best parent. he's trying his best to make up for it, but that kind of damage can't be undone.
2025-02-27 12:57:35
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vraedwulf
vraedwulf :
it's ~30% right the first time AND another ~30% received an apology and repair, then the remainder can be uncorrected mistakes.
2025-02-27 02:01:32
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cursedroyal
🖤♦️👑 Crow 👑♦️🖤 :
I was "raised" by my mom, grandma, dad & stepdad. My fiance was raised by a single mother. Guess which one of us has a secure attachment? 🤗 (Hint: I have DID & autoimmune conditions! He doesn't.)
2025-02-27 11:22:43
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tashaw5094
Tashaw509 :
If it makes you feel better, you're probably not disorganized. You're probably fearful avoidant. Many FA think they're disorganized
2025-02-27 03:14:12
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denise_beeeeee1
D$ 🍉 :
🤫 that's an unfun fact
2025-02-27 13:17:18
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didbdxhdie
lynn :
woww this is insane um that's not how I expected to start my morning I always get told by my mom I'm being dramatic and don't have trauma
2025-02-27 12:20:05
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that5280lady
That5280Lady✌🏽🤖🎨 :
these things just solidify why I'm not contact😂
2025-02-27 13:29:30
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nerdlyk
Nerdly :
SO IT WASNT EVEN THE BARE MINIMUM EXCELLENT, MY DISAPPOINTMENT CAN IN FACT GROW
2025-02-27 05:28:04
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ms_lavender_lady
Ms_Lavender_Lady🆘🇺🇸 :
I n had my needs met like 5% of the time. And that’s why I have 7/9 on my ace test. I’m a hot mess. 😂
2025-02-27 04:18:14
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modernwitchymama
Heather the Modern Witch :
[screams]
2025-02-27 12:05:22
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grace.c.lindstrom
grace :
oh I didn't need to hear this hahahah
2025-02-26 19:52:27
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tinyfeistygay
renna :
...i thought it would be significantly higher. oh 🫠
2025-02-27 06:46:26
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amandafaithcannon
Amanda Cannon :
This is insaneeee
2025-02-26 02:25:07
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daynaschwartzgibbons
Dayna Schwartz-Gibbo :
Wait, like emotional needs? Or like food and shelter?
2025-02-26 14:01:30
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alexsayswhoops
Alex. :
where is this stat from? I feel like my needs were met a solid 60% of the time and I still have a very disorganized attachment...
2025-02-27 07:10:34
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