@arieltusa: Me, learning about the 30% rule: Ah, so THAT’S why I overthink every text. —— And also recognizing that beaking cycles means giving myself the security I never had. #InnerChildWork #GenerationalHealing #AttachmentIssues
this just pmo. off to start an argument w my parents
2025-02-27 13:28:09
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Brittany :
That actually helps with the mom guilt. We can’t be perfect all the time but I’d like to think I’m good 80% of the time. Solid B mom.
2025-02-26 05:27:29
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kayybai :
I feel like they had it until I started to become a teenager and stopped being the happy agreeable little kid. I wasn’t even rebellious, I just questioned and had differing opinions and views.
2025-02-27 03:54:41
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Gingin🌻 :
The bar was literally in hell and neither of them could do it 🫠🫣
2025-02-27 09:14:51
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Winter_Skye21🆘🇺🇸 :
Did you just punch me in the face?
2025-02-27 05:03:30
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Masquerian :
I hear these things and think ‘damn they didn’t spend no time on me’ while daily thinking about how I would sit at the top of the basement stairs crying for my dad to play a game with me cause he-
2025-02-27 10:08:12
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! • 宁阳 • Nìng Yáng • ! :
oh see I had it so bad cuz I was taken by cps
2025-02-27 10:26:23
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Kit :
oh shit... well at least now I know that it was indeed emotional neglect and not my being a difficult child
2025-02-27 01:24:37
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Fletcher :
I think my dad sees how we treat my niece and nephew and he's finally understanding that he wasn't the best parent. he's trying his best to make up for it, but that kind of damage can't be undone.
2025-02-27 12:57:35
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vraedwulf :
it's ~30% right the first time AND another ~30% received an apology and repair, then the remainder can be uncorrected mistakes.
2025-02-27 02:01:32
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🖤♦️👑 Crow 👑♦️🖤 :
I was "raised" by my mom, grandma, dad & stepdad. My fiance was raised by a single mother. Guess which one of us has a secure attachment? 🤗 (Hint: I have DID & autoimmune conditions! He doesn't.)
2025-02-27 11:22:43
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Tashaw509 :
If it makes you feel better, you're probably not disorganized. You're probably fearful avoidant. Many FA think they're disorganized
2025-02-27 03:14:12
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D$ 🍉 :
🤫 that's an unfun fact
2025-02-27 13:17:18
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lynn :
woww this is insane um that's not how I expected to start my morning I always get told by my mom I'm being dramatic and don't have trauma
2025-02-27 12:20:05
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That5280Lady✌🏽🤖🎨 :
these things just solidify why I'm not contact😂
2025-02-27 13:29:30
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Nerdly :
SO IT WASNT EVEN THE BARE MINIMUM EXCELLENT, MY DISAPPOINTMENT CAN IN FACT GROW
2025-02-27 05:28:04
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Ms_Lavender_Lady🆘🇺🇸 :
I n had my needs met like 5% of the time. And that’s why I have 7/9 on my ace test. I’m a hot mess. 😂
2025-02-27 04:18:14
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Heather the Modern Witch :
[screams]
2025-02-27 12:05:22
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grace :
oh I didn't need to hear this hahahah
2025-02-26 19:52:27
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renna :
...i thought it would be significantly higher. oh 🫠
2025-02-27 06:46:26
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Amanda Cannon :
This is insaneeee
2025-02-26 02:25:07
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Dayna Schwartz-Gibbo :
Wait, like emotional needs? Or like food and shelter?
2025-02-26 14:01:30
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Alex. :
where is this stat from? I feel like my needs were met a solid 60% of the time and I still have a very disorganized attachment...
2025-02-27 07:10:34
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