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Rani De Jonghe :
Avoidants love space so much, you’d think they work for NASA.
2025-02-26 16:27:30
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standardbyher :
Dear avoidants please date each other 😩
2025-02-27 12:12:56
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Ι Χ Θ Υ Σ :
Huge tip. Make sure the avoidant you’re dating is trying to heal their attachment style. If they’re not there is NOTHING you do that will be good enough
2025-02-27 01:55:31
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Chesskadoodles 🇵🇸 🍉 :
Avoidants will "need space" and then you'll find out later about all the people they were spending time with instead of you :) Meanwhile you're driving yourself insane trying to accommodate them.
2025-03-01 16:05:09
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Isa Lestrange :
As an avoidant: why are these comments always so mean and unreflected? Its also our first time living, we didn't choose to be avoidant and most of us are really trying to heal...❤️🩹
2025-02-26 20:19:18
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Cher Bear :
Why is it always about adjusting to them and never about them working on themselves
2025-02-27 11:09:08
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hazellwoo :
don't. date. an. avoidant.
2025-03-03 14:32:30
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Piscesinthewaves :
And in the meantime, the avoidant does nothing to cater to their partner 🥰
2025-02-28 21:59:05
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JacquelineGill75 :
And the anxious destroy themselves in the mean time.
2025-02-26 20:45:17
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shawnab1101 🇨🇦 :
Give them space to so they can start another relationship and have more options.
2025-02-26 14:30:50
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AshiepantsMEOW :
It's like trying to be in a relationship with someone that doesn't want a relationship. We constantly give space and cater to their needs, tiptoe around them, and our own needs are ignored. It's exhausting.
2025-03-05 02:58:14
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Hailsxx :
Just avoid the avoidant and go the other way.
2025-02-28 04:59:33
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ReleasebyVR |Trauma Healing :
Relationships should be reciprocal. This is too much emotional labor on the other person. Avoidants aren’t bad ppl yes, but they need to learn accountability & heal. They CAN heal!
2025-02-28 08:47:52
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ADHDOrca / (DJ) SENs0ry :
Best advice, respect their need for space and let them go because they won’t respect your needs for comfort and emotional connection. Relationships shouldn’t be one sided.
2025-02-26 17:49:02
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Lioness Chose The Bear :
I did that for so long. The more space I gave the more she wanted space. When I finally asked for basic needs I was ghosted for a week then told my needs were too much
2025-02-26 13:41:44
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Grace :
“Anxious attachment” are fixer uppers with hurt egos because they weren’t the special one who could change me. They dont want secure attachment, they want me to be equally anxious and dependent.
2025-05-02 12:24:20
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Yesenia5653 :
My avoidant ex said he needed space never came back. We divorced after 30 years.
2025-02-27 15:04:01
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Hopla :
so dismissing your own wants and needs and prioritizing them, got it!
2025-02-27 21:11:10
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schwamohnehalo :
it’s not worth it. you’ll use the whole capacity of your life to make them feel safe but they will ignore your needs. you’ll feel non existing and that’s just excruciating and wrenching
2025-02-26 22:49:13
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Kearabetsoe Thamae :
No leave them alone.
2025-02-27 09:47:33
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Mandy Krueger :
None of it works! Just run. You can do nothing. They need to choose to be better. Don't do it to yourself
2025-02-27 03:36:58
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kayla❀ :
What most of these comments don’t realize is that both anxious and avoidant attachments styles are two sides of the SAME COIN. Anxious people need to learn and grow just as much as avoidants do
2025-03-06 05:53:52
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AJordank9 :
This isn’t love. Don’t do this. You’ll be exhausted
2025-03-04 17:29:26
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Carolina Figomon :
El mejor consejo cuando estás saliendo con alguien con apego evitativo es...SAL DE ESA RELACIÓN.
2025-03-10 08:14:06
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