As an avoidant when I’m in a conflict, argument, discussion I typically need to pull away for a few hours for space to decompress and process which allows me to later come back to it
2025-02-28 17:52:19
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katelyn.clough :
BEING WAITING YEARS FOR SOMEONE TO SAY THIS ON ATTACHMENT.
2025-02-28 00:15:53
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user1726815168021 :
Are we even anxious? Or, is their attachment, then ultimate discard, just so terrible?
2025-02-28 23:04:08
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Srice :
There definitely needs to be balance. I was anxious in my marriage and I’m more on the avoidant side in my current relationship. I should have accountability but he should also do the work and heal.
2025-02-28 01:29:04
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Sheena :
You are the first person I’ve seen that says the avoidant needs to heal too. THANK YOU.
2025-02-28 00:03:28
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Ashley :
Yes. Mine went 9 days before dumping me. No call/text first. Got mad at me and said we are both adults who cares who calls who first. He said I have no empathy for how he deals with things. But…
2025-03-01 03:58:00
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That Girl! :
YES!!!!
2025-02-28 09:12:06
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John in Seattle :
Call me the anxious person. The avoidant who wants to completely run away from any accountability does exactly that. Sometimes they just dont care because they are in fact so broken.
2025-02-28 02:00:08
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