@meet_thefreemans: If one of you isn’t ready to repair, these 3 things are missing 👇 Many couples struggle with repair conversations—they either never happen, take 3+ days (which hurts), or just turn into another fight because they’re rehashing the details instead of actually resolving anything. Here’s what’s missing: 1. Emotional Regulation – It’s hard to have a repair conversation when emotions are still heightened. Many couples struggle to shift from frustration to clear thinking, which makes every attempt at resolution feel like another argument. 2. Responsibility – Either one or both partners haven’t reflected on their part in the situation. Or, one person feels like the other hasn’t taken ownership, which makes them hesitant to move forward. 3. Root Cause – One of the biggest mistakes couples make is focusing on the details instead of the actual issue. If you’re worried the conflict will just keep happening, it’s harder to repair with confidence. (We don’t have space here to list the 5 most common root causes of conflict—but we cover them in the webclass below!) Because so many couples asked, we’ve extended the replay of our recent Live Marriage WebClass, where we covered: ✅ How to prevent unnecessary conflicts through the most practical communication habit to start ✅ How to de-escalate conflicts (and prevent them from being destructive) ✅ How to repair after an argument—including how to initiate it the right way so you don’t re-trigger a fight and how to identify the 5 most common root causes of conflict PLUS, we’ve extended the bundled deal for our 3 most popular conflict & communication guides so you can start implementing these skills immediately in your marriage. >> comment CLASS to watch the replay & grab the bundle before we close it for the year!

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