@thepsycholotea: QUESTION FOR YOU: How frequently do you find them withdrawing? If you’re always the one compromising, working on your triggers, and holding space… when do you get to feel held? Are they doing their part too? ✅ Yes, understanding an avoidant partner’s patterns can help 🚫 BUT it shouldn't be ALL on you! A healthy relationship isn’t about constantly proving you’re safe—it’s about both people meeting in the middle. You deserve a relationship where BOTH people feel safe to stay—where you don’t have to tiptoe around someone’s fears of intimacy just to keep the connection alive. Let’s talk—have you been in this cycle before? #relationshipadvice #breakuprecovery #ex #nocontact #avoidant #lettinggo #psychologist #HealingJourney #movingon