@kinacptsdtherapist: Chronically invalidated + minimized but emotional neglect IS the bad thing #cptsd

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peejspieces
pj :
as someone that's dealt with both, its often easier to work through the times where a guardian does something tangible &objectively horrific, but what about the times they do nothing when they saw you
2025-03-06 17:28:34
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jeannesanstamtam
Jeanne Sans Tam-Tam 🍉 :
I always dreamed about ending up in hospital so someone would finally check on me.
2025-03-06 17:44:05
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my_account_i_guess
char :
me except i feel like it's my fault bc my parents offered support but i didn't take it bc i didn't feel safe enough
2025-03-06 18:54:29
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af_071
Mr. SpongeBob :
Emotional neglect actually causes greater levels of dissociation than s3xual abuse, as measured by the DES-II
2025-03-06 15:53:16
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motherofsausage
motherofsausage :
I didn’t realize the fantasizing thing was so common until I was an adult.
2025-03-06 16:24:39
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nnearmello
N :
spoiler alert, even if sth. really bad happens to you it still doesn't feel good, because the attention does not feel safe. at least for me
2025-03-06 18:01:06
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sanjinosantoku
rat chef :
this is a little tone deaf guys 🫶 most people who face other forms of abuse are also emotionally neglected and it’s rly weird to act like any form abuse is “worse”
2025-03-06 17:21:20
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calirasa
Asira :
but whyyy can't i accept that? my therapist is starting to get really frustrated with me i'm afraid...i still think it was not that big of a deal...
2025-03-06 15:58:30
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crocodilesweetpickles
Crocodile :
the guilt is insane too. especially for the people where their parents have come to accept the damage that is done. it unfortunately doesn't reverse the damage..
2025-03-06 16:36:44
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tantaliza
🇨🇦 :
as a 90s child, I wasn't allowed to be upset unless my parents died or were divorced/divorcing. anything else meant you were being dramatic
2025-03-06 18:33:02
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n3rv0uswr3n
Jaques :
I have a friend (my best friend) who recently opened up to me about his insane emotional neglect but he’s stuck on that “it could be worse” and it makes me sad because of how traumatizing neglect can
2025-03-06 16:00:15
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b0624bs
Lxki 🐾☄️ :
people dont talk about the compromised immune system enough. im constantly in pain/sick just because i wasnt fed right and all that
2025-03-06 20:11:43
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xgijx
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This + it was the main reason I developed a dissociative identily disorder as a little child to deal with it
2025-03-06 19:06:51
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moominanny
moominanny :
yeaahhh and yet I’m still often stuck in the “it’s not that bad” mindset oops
2025-03-06 17:31:36
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just.sayin90
Just Sayin :
Is this also true for adults who are emotionally neglected by their partner?
2025-03-06 16:21:00
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lanama50
lanama :
Incorrect. It may and often does cause PTSD. The severity of it depends on many factors. People aren't even necessarily traumatized by traumatic things. Even kids. You should know that.
2025-03-06 16:42:20
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