@sheisapaigeturner: I am not alone in this experience. Many women have been in this exact same position. The work required to manage a home and a family is not something that one person should ever have to carry alone. It is possible to change these dynamics. It is hard but with the right tools and support it’s possible and it’s so much better on the other side. #marriageadvice #mentalload #mentalloadofmotherhood #divorced #divorcedmom #parentingadvice #default
A woman’s love language is not having to ask, I’ll die on this hill
2025-03-07 07:33:35
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Sinner Kitten :
Even the statement “ok, tell me what I need to do” adds mental load in itself. I know his intent is there but it’s just like… SEE IT ON YOUR OWN
2025-03-06 23:54:45
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Dawn 🇨🇦 :
When I divorced my husband, he said ‘you will see how much I did around here now!’ Still waiting to see!
2025-03-08 12:16:44
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Marijke :
I don't need him to do more, I need him to KNOW more
2025-03-06 18:39:26
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Mon :
Do i have a husband? No. Did i stay at the end of the video? Yes. 😂😂
2025-03-06 23:36:49
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Re Mi :
are any husbands actually watching this ?
2025-03-06 20:09:57
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stella3026 :
but if you're exhausted why are you having FOUR kids? 😭😭
2025-03-06 21:01:25
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BreezinEasy21 :
Counselor here. What I see often is wife corrects husband so much he feels he cannot do anything right without instruction. Split the tasks and don’t micro manage. If he he fails let it.
2025-03-09 02:24:58
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Alynna ✨ :
Having to ask is ANOTHER TASK
2025-03-08 14:28:40
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Subbiedoogal :
A mother of 5 not 4
2025-03-07 09:53:41
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Pastor Anthony :
To all the ladies who work and are also carrying the load of “making the house work”: we see you. To all the guys struggling with the feeling of being attacked: it’s a cry for help not an attack.
2025-03-07 17:38:33
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Eiydra :
I don't want kids, my bf did. Told him that if he can keep the kitchen counter clean for a month I will consider it. 20 years later we still don't have kids. 😂
2025-03-06 17:49:24
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︎︎︎ :
Why have so many kids then?
2025-03-06 21:31:20
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Rachel :
My husband used to always say "if you need help, just ask" and it would enrage me because nobody was "asking" me to do everything. The mental load is exhausting.
2025-03-07 09:37:14
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Shelley Ann :
My husband said the same thing. “Tell me what to do and I’ll do it” so I responded “the thing is I shouldn’t have to TELL you. YOU should see what needs to be done and just do it”
2025-03-07 11:57:06
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xodushk :
you WORK TOO? WITH FOUR KIDS AND HE HAD THE AUDACITY TO NOT DO THOSE SIMPLE TASKS????????
2025-03-06 23:28:30
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siriserazo :
The car, yard, home maintenance safety and intimacy I'm sure are his jobs with no recognition. Don't be passive aggressive if you want something from a man. Sit down negotiate and mutually agree.
2025-03-06 20:11:55
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Chelsea :
This is genuinely my worst nightmare 😔
2025-03-06 22:20:27
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user9910443121514 :
"I am the project manager of this home" is perfect
2025-03-06 21:48:11
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M :
Her: Honey I'm tired of micromanaging everyone and everything in this house. Please have more initiative
Him : Ok tell me what to do
😑
2025-03-07 11:16:48
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Rhonda Chung :
when my husband says just remind me, I asked, "and who is going to remind me to remind you?"
2025-03-07 12:55:47
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Crew Chief :
The irony is if you divorce, you're still doing it all, on less money.
2025-03-07 13:34:18
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Alan Mitchell :
Am I married? No. Do I have kids? No. Did I find this TED talk informative and true? Absolutely! Thanks for sharing your experiences. 💚
2025-03-07 22:22:17
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K :
I am pretty sure the husband “mental load” is not even discussed. I promise you being a man/husband is not easy.
2025-03-09 01:52:51
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