@sheisapaigeturner: I am not alone in this experience. Many women have been in this exact same position. The work required to manage a home and a family is not something that one person should ever have to carry alone. It is possible to change these dynamics. It is hard but with the right tools and support it’s possible and it’s so much better on the other side. #marriageadvice #mentalload #mentalloadofmotherhood #divorced #divorcedmom #parentingadvice #default
Guys, Her husband is a utility lineman while she "works from home". Whatever mental load she deals with can’t be heavier than his physical one.
2025-04-02 09:28:44
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CoolCat0 :
please divorce 🙏 that man needs peace
2025-05-18 03:01:53
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Alynna ✨ :
Having to ask is ANOTHER TASK
2025-03-08 14:28:40
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Sinner Kitten :
Even the statement “ok, tell me what I need to do” adds mental load in itself. I know his intent is there but it’s just like… SEE IT ON YOUR OWN
2025-03-06 23:54:45
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Marijke :
I don't need him to do more, I need him to KNOW more
2025-03-06 18:39:26
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Subbiedoogal :
A mother of 5 not 4
2025-03-07 09:53:41
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Britt 🌻 :
Even if the physical load is similar, the MENTAL load is a silent killer
2025-03-06 17:39:29
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Dawn 🇨🇦 :
When I divorced my husband, he said ‘you will see how much I did around here now!’ Still waiting to see!
2025-03-08 12:16:44
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Eiydra :
I don't want kids, my bf did. Told him that if he can keep the kitchen counter clean for a month I will consider it. 20 years later we still don't have kids. 😂
2025-03-06 17:49:24
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Helen_uk :
Go away for a long weekend and leave him alone with the kids it’s a rude awakening 😂
2025-03-06 21:45:03
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Ninalolachi :
“I can’t take the mental load” “tell me what to do” 😂
2025-03-06 20:30:21
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cb97sprb :
Girl I thought you were like 25!!
2025-03-06 19:21:24
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Chelsea :
This is genuinely my worst nightmare 😔
2025-03-06 22:20:27
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Pamela M :
just as reference, even without kids, this happens.
2025-03-10 20:10:28
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Eeyore :
Telling them over and over leads to resentment. resentment is difficult to come back from. I'm glad you were able to turn it around ❤️
2025-03-07 15:04:46
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Elle :
Crazy when we ask for help, even when they are still willing to help, we still have to project manage the help.
2025-03-07 16:05:05
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Powerchick00 🇨🇦 :
Best thing I did for my marriage was travel for work. I didn’t prep meals in advance or organize rides to practice. I just left and my husband had to step up. He did. And so did my kids.
2025-03-06 22:33:31
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thelogicalmuslimah :
We really shouldn’t need to train grown men!
2025-03-07 15:42:58
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Cata Francisca :
de todos los idiomas eligió hablar con el de la verdad
2025-03-07 02:41:21
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Claudine Suzanne :
I am divorced and I started teaching this to my son. Look around, see what needs to be done and do it. Don’t ask me. Learn to take initiative and make time to really see the dishes, trash, dust etc.
2025-03-08 23:44:33
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daniela :
20 years ?!? you look like you’re 20!?
2025-03-08 17:17:38
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Niamh is ainm dom :
He would scroll past this though.
2025-03-06 17:59:05
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