idk if you've seen garbanzo the cat on here but his foster mom has tons of tips that helped her journey with banzo
2025-03-09 07:26:51
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Atsumu_theparas1te :
For anyone writing negative comments im 16 years old and neurodivergent alr? I know this seems selfish to want to pet my cat but going thru my head is i want to help him love ppl not that i want to pet him we all have different things going thru our head and 16 year olds dont always have a voice of reason and ik this
2025-03-12 12:12:45
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lamar꩜~| #1 hanster 🇸🇩| ✴️❇️ :
he was probably doing the abusing😭🙏
2025-03-11 18:55:38
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Amanda🌺 :
i once heard of a woman who had her cat for 5 years, the cat never let her near or let her pet it, then one day cat just crawled onto her lap :) don’t give up on the baby, but I hope you make progress
2025-03-08 01:49:15
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chubbysloth14 :
Honestly the fact he sits near shows he trusts you I think maybe hands just make him anxious
2025-03-08 23:21:33
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midori :
abused becomes the abuser ahh 😭
2025-03-09 11:10:21
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inkush420 :
get another cat
2025-03-12 02:19:54
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romes :
i hope he gets better😕
2025-03-08 01:54:12
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Jordan Gonzales :
poor baby is traumatized
2025-03-09 07:51:06
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P. Kityionshikov :
ain't that a lil selfish?
2025-03-12 05:23:21
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buppy ✨️ :
animals are their own being, he many never trust you petting him but him sitting with you is him showing his love! you can't force an animal to act a certain way unfortunately
2025-03-09 00:42:49
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Idfk :
Maybe try hand feeding him treats? It might help him associate your hands with something positive like food.
2025-03-09 00:39:18
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whos_alysssa :
Poor baby.. I hope you make progress soon
2025-03-08 01:45:03
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alex 🍉 :
please please please keep going with him. every cat deserves an equal chance.
2025-03-09 02:35:42
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Slycoxhound :
Wait until he comes to you
2025-03-09 07:19:07
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Skyyclan :
Does he ever accidentally make physical contact with you? You could try carrying treats in a pouch, and any time he even barely brushes against you, drop some treats! You want to be the treat god!
2025-03-09 01:25:40
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Sweet Alice :
This why I don’t adopt cats that were abused just my preference. I want to love and cuddle my cat. I don’t need this negativity in my life 😭😩
2025-03-10 01:06:57
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Epicface.EXE™ :
help does his claws even come out? it looks like he just patted you😭🙏
2025-03-12 02:27:38
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Elizzyyy 🇵🇸 :
As a lifelong “dog person” who now loves and has a cat - seeing cat people keep and love their cat who doesn’t reciprocate that is amazing. Most dog people would give them away if they didn’t worship
2025-03-09 20:06:28
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Belle :
this will sound so silly, have you tried wearing mittens or gloves? could help if he's scared of hands
2025-03-09 04:32:47
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clsey :
honestly you may never be able to pet him and have him be that cuddly cat you may want but that it okay. love him from afar and he will stay as close as he can no worries friend
2025-03-08 02:25:54
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Kookies_minion_the_forty_ninth :
Definitely try hand feeding treats. It’ll give him a more healthy relationship with ppls hands
2025-03-08 14:34:12
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🦹♂️ :
How do you tolerate this in your own house FOR YEARS
2025-03-09 12:21:00
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Andri :
Lie down next to him, since you're more or less the same size, he'll feel less intimidated. You can also slowly approach him with your extended hand with some cat treats so he knows you can be trusted
2025-03-12 06:37:01
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Bunn-Bun ❤️ :
He’s a vibe boy not a cuddle one 😂
2025-03-09 08:15:42
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