@greg.healoutloud: As the family scapegoat, you allow the toxic people in your family to avoid all accountability for their actions and behavior. You become the perfect external object to project and blame all their guilt and shame onto so they can avoid looking at themselves. It’s their internal excuse for the way they feel. It’s your fault not theirs. As a neurodivergent scapegoat, they are also jealous and resentful of your sensitivity, intuition, creativity, likability and empathy. Their toxicity blocks and buries these traits in themselves and they in turn, hate you for having qualities they don’t or no longer possess. You, as the scapegoat, have the best chance to escape and live an authentic life that you love. When you escape and take your power back…… you then become the GOAT. Heal Out Loud! #toxicrelationship #toxicfamily #traumatok #survivor #scapegoat #trauma #npdawareness #traumatized #narcissist #narcissism #narctok #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergenttiktok #autismawareness #autisticadult #healing #awakening #npdsurvivor
Greg | Heal Out Loud
Region: US
Saturday 08 March 2025 20:36:58 GMT
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Joshdifferent :
Four years no contact. Thank God for freeing me.
2025-03-09 01:40:37
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Em Free :
Nope. They wanted me dead so their depravity secrets would die with me.
2025-03-09 07:35:02
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JearBear :
It is so PATHETIC to watch my narc mom play the victim! Makes me sick!
2025-03-11 15:32:48
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R_Noble :
Great explanation of toxicity and narcissists
2025-03-08 21:11:12
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Cesar Roman :
Once you understand that dynamic and leave, you see the collapse of the narcissists.
2025-03-09 14:56:22
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OnaJourney :
I was the scapegoat chid. My narc father insisted I be present, seemingly just to witness his idealized, mutual admiration relationship with my brother. I was there only to be excluded and devalued.
2025-03-09 00:26:32
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restingbitchface :
remove yourself in silence, no words needed 💜
2025-03-12 07:50:07
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Laura :
It's really not funny, I'm so tired of being blamed for everything
2025-03-09 14:13:50
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kerrieclarke :
it's me! the black sheep 🐑
2025-03-09 05:57:05
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Bella Rose Official :
Since i cut them off im risingggggg and rising and risingggggg
2025-04-14 21:47:54
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ellenamac12 :
As the scapegoat, they tell me that I am just playing the victim.
2025-04-29 08:36:41
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DimiPap :
They want you dead once you start talking out loud about the abuse. I was told they want me dead. So yes they want you dead.
2025-03-10 13:01:01
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Milla Cyn :
if money wasn't a prob i would've left my toxic family long ago even tho i was still youn. i remember tellin myself wow i must be unluckiest girl
2025-03-11 13:06:04
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pdiac :
You could apply what your saying about our government 😭😭😭
2025-03-08 23:47:03
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Kirsty Hildrew :
Walked away from my two sisters best walk I’ve ever done ☑️☑️
2025-03-09 23:02:06
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🐟pam169🐟 :
Yes and this is why no contact is so important because you cut them off in silence and it doesn't give them any ammunition to work with 😉
2025-03-08 22:46:15
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Storm 🇨🇦 :
This makes me feel seen thank you 💜
2025-03-12 16:09:59
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C❤️😽 :
10 years no contact from my abusive narcissistic father. Now he’s trying to come back into my life 😓 but he’s only coming to finish me off for good. I don’t trust him.
2025-03-10 23:53:44
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Jill Jagers :
True and some of us don't have finance to leave the cult
2025-03-09 06:51:55
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christine :
this is what my family were like i was the scapegoat i walked away after my parents passed away
2025-03-08 20:43:57
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Lexi Harlow :
God this is my grandma. And why my mother and I can’t speak. She loves that narc.
2025-03-08 23:26:21
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Cosmic Life :
So True. I will never bow down
2025-03-09 21:57:12
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Molly Mollarina 🍃🌺🌿 :
I didn't know I was raised by narcissist and married one until after the narcissist I married died and everything became calm . no egg shells to walk on
2025-03-09 17:28:06
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