@greg.healoutloud: As the family scapegoat, you allow the toxic people in your family to avoid all accountability for their actions and behavior. You become the perfect external object to project and blame all their guilt and shame onto so they can avoid looking at themselves. It’s their internal excuse for the way they feel. It’s your fault not theirs. As a neurodivergent scapegoat, they are also jealous and resentful of your sensitivity, intuition, creativity, likability and empathy. Their toxicity blocks and buries these traits in themselves and they in turn, hate you for having qualities they don’t or no longer possess. You, as the scapegoat, have the best chance to escape and live an authentic life that you love. When you escape and take your power back…… you then become the GOAT. Heal Out Loud! #toxicrelationship #toxicfamily #traumatok #survivor #scapegoat #trauma #npdawareness #traumatized #narcissist #narcissism #narctok #neurodivergent #neurospicy #neurodivergenttiktok #autismawareness #autisticadult #healing #awakening #npdsurvivor

Greg | Heal Out Loud
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joshdifferent
Joshdifferent :
Four years no contact. Thank God for freeing me.
2025-03-09 01:40:37
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consumer_to_creator
Em Free :
Nope. They wanted me dead so their depravity secrets would die with me.
2025-03-09 07:35:02
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asmr_sacredtwist
JearBear :
It is so PATHETIC to watch my narc mom play the victim! Makes me sick!
2025-03-11 15:32:48
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reggienoble22
R_Noble :
Great explanation of toxicity and narcissists
2025-03-08 21:11:12
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cesar.roman588
Cesar Roman :
Once you understand that dynamic and leave, you see the collapse of the narcissists.
2025-03-09 14:56:22
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beingtrueself
OnaJourney :
I was the scapegoat chid. My narc father insisted I be present, seemingly just to witness his idealized, mutual admiration relationship with my brother. I was there only to be excluded and devalued.
2025-03-09 00:26:32
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restingbitchface82
restingbitchface :
remove yourself in silence, no words needed 💜
2025-03-12 07:50:07
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ljbhogan
Laura :
It's really not funny, I'm so tired of being blamed for everything
2025-03-09 14:13:50
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kerrieart
kerrieclarke :
it's me! the black sheep 🐑
2025-03-09 05:57:05
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bellarosemusic
Bella Rose Official :
Since i cut them off im risingggggg and rising and risingggggg
2025-04-14 21:47:54
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ellenamac12
ellenamac12 :
As the scapegoat, they tell me that I am just playing the victim.
2025-04-29 08:36:41
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dimipap88
DimiPap :
They want you dead once you start talking out loud about the abuse. I was told they want me dead. So yes they want you dead.
2025-03-10 13:01:01
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millacyn
Milla Cyn :
if money wasn't a prob i would've left my toxic family long ago even tho i was still youn. i remember tellin myself wow i must be unluckiest girl
2025-03-11 13:06:04
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purpledinoinacup
pdiac :
You could apply what your saying about our government 😭😭😭
2025-03-08 23:47:03
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kirsty.hildrew137
Kirsty Hildrew :
Walked away from my two sisters best walk I’ve ever done ☑️☑️
2025-03-09 23:02:06
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pamg169
🐟pam169🐟 :
Yes and this is why no contact is so important because you cut them off in silence and it doesn't give them any ammunition to work with 😉
2025-03-08 22:46:15
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stormie_chaos
Storm 🇨🇦 :
This makes me feel seen thank you 💜
2025-03-12 16:09:59
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cjay321
C❤️😽 :
10 years no contact from my abusive narcissistic father. Now he’s trying to come back into my life 😓 but he’s only coming to finish me off for good. I don’t trust him.
2025-03-10 23:53:44
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jill.jagers0
Jill Jagers :
True and some of us don't have finance to leave the cult
2025-03-09 06:51:55
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christine18695
christine :
this is what my family were like i was the scapegoat i walked away after my parents passed away
2025-03-08 20:43:57
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lexiiharlow
Lexi Harlow :
God this is my grandma. And why my mother and I can’t speak. She loves that narc.
2025-03-08 23:26:21
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tisa_958
Cosmic Life :
So True. I will never bow down
2025-03-09 21:57:12
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mollirinamolly
Molly Mollarina 🍃🌺🌿 :
I didn't know I was raised by narcissist and married one until after the narcissist I married died and everything became calm . no egg shells to walk on
2025-03-09 17:28:06
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