@destini.ann: In our home, respect isn’t about hierarchy—it’s about mutual respect and understanding. So when my 12-year-old texted me to tell me she was frustrated, I didn’t see it as disrespectful. Instead, I saw it as a moment of growth. She wasn’t just expressing frustration—she was showing emotional intelligence, the kind of communication skills we’ve been working on together for years. 💛 She beautifully articulated 4 of the communication skills I’ve intentionally modeled and taught over the years. 💬 Big News—-> I started my SubStack 😍🎉 (it’s like newsletter meets blog) 🫶🏾🫶🏾Click the link in my bio to subscribe and read about the 4 Communication Skills I’ve taught her and how you can start teaching and modeling them to promote empowering, assertive communication. It would mean the world to have your support and to share specific and practical advice in a more intimate space❤️
Some will see this as rude/disrespectful. In fact it’s the opposite she was able to express herself respectfully while still getting her point across. Good job mom!
2025-03-11 00:32:42
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Ariana Ashshadi :
Love this!! Our children deserve to be heard & seen
2025-03-11 00:36:01
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taybunny :
I love this sm! She is NOT going to allow any disrespect from friends, coworkers, or partners & she’s ALREADY doing it politely & calmly? WOW 🤩
2025-03-11 16:56:12
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Amanda Bouldin :
This is our home with 3 tiny queens and the accountability they bring to me 😂😂😂 love them for it
2025-03-11 00:11:42
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Aether🦋 :
IF YOU WROTE A BOOK ON PARENTING, I WOULD READ IT 👏🏽🔥💯
2025-03-11 22:40:10
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Zee✨♏️ :
I’m proud of both of you
2025-03-11 14:48:37
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Globetrotting Gig Girl :
Finally someone who doesn’t confuse gentle parenting with permissive parenting!
2025-03-12 10:10:23
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_StoneColdJaneAusten :
Goodness, can you be proud of someone you don’t know? Your page is always such a refreshing perspective on parenting ❤️good for your baby, and good for you!!
2025-03-11 13:50:13
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SocialistScientist🇨🇩🇸🇩🇵🇸 :
Hell yeah, love this! 👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽
2025-03-11 00:33:50
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Sar Chasm :
What you’re doing for her nervous system is INCREDIBLE! 🩵
2025-03-11 23:16:26
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Pittie :
I wish I would have been heard and seen like this as a kid 😭
2025-03-11 01:40:13
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CG Smith :
the fact that she was not only able to come to you about it, but effectively communicate it, reflects fantastic for both her and you 🥰🥰🥰
2025-03-11 19:05:03
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Chrissy Horton :
This is amazing! Teaching our girls to make their voices heard ❤️❤️
2025-03-11 01:16:17
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Pen :
This is how I raised my kiddos because I resented being told to drop the attitude and quit arguing when I was trying to express my feelings. what you'd rather I yell?
2025-03-11 18:51:28
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HeyItsShadei | Beauty YT &IG :
I love this, I wish I could say this to my mom now without it being looked at as disrespectful 😩😂
2025-03-11 20:34:20
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Grace Johnson :
And now you’ll apologize and y’all will work on a plan together 🥰
2025-03-11 23:33:55
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Jazmine :
This is so healing that she can talk to you like this
2025-03-12 19:29:53
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Yallimtired :
This is beautiful! A confidently expressive child is a safe and loved child!
2025-03-11 11:17:59
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Lorax :
Proof that this works! That’s beautiful. Way to go kiddo ♥️✨ and mom!
2025-03-11 01:33:17
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chaunticeegreen :
INSPIRING
2025-03-11 19:06:28
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Ollie Rose 🍉 :
I love this
2025-03-15 01:09:56
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Jazzmin Golden :
I love this because I would’ve got cussed out😂
2025-03-13 06:08:37
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Sierra🌻 :
It’s all about the tone 👏🏻 if my kids need to air out a problem they’re having with me, let’s do it! She approached this so well, you’re doing amazing!💜
2025-03-13 15:14:47
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Sas :
This is beautiful! 🤩
2025-03-13 09:18:54
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Jolie :
This is such amazing and direct communication.
2025-03-12 21:21:00
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