@sarahwiththeplot: Why did Sara and Virginia reject Ben and Devlin on Love Is Blind based on values but the men didn't care about the difference in opinions? #sexist #feminist #metoo #feminism #womenempowerment #sexism #feministtiktok #womenempoweringwomen
The people with the controlling or oppressive views always have a “can’t we all get along?” opinion, because they are the ones oppressing.
2025-03-11 14:44:43
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Draggy Droo :
Didn’t watch it but seen the clips in question and the fact he tried to gaslight her immediately with the I love you and we can work on it…👀 yeah, not a chance.
2025-03-11 13:32:55
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Diary of a Defense Attorney :
💯💯💯. How do men grow up being so self directed, so laser focused on their own needs and priorities? It’s like men don’t recognize the impact of 100’s of years of wmn’s labor propping up men.
2025-03-11 13:19:58
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Dee-Zyne :
They just can’t wrap their heads around why those who felt/know the worst of patriarchal oppression won’t happily come to heel. Just smile as I exercise my privilege while ignoring your oppression.
2025-03-11 14:51:15
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Isla Idiomas :
I left my partner of 15 years exactly for this reason. Because I was associated with his opinions which I didn’t agree with. I didn’t want to be tarred with his right wing brush. I’m so glad I did.
2025-03-11 19:31:19
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Clair :
The fact that my fiance was called them out before I did made me proud. He noticed things that I didn’t. I asked how he knew & he was like, “I’m a man, I can tell by the language he’s using”.
2025-03-11 20:17:17
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🐀 :
it bc they have every intention to shut them up. that why they arnt bothered the world is so in their favour they are confident enought to think they can diminished & manipulate them to his thinking
2025-03-11 16:29:47
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mayhemisneat :
I'm not dating, but, if I was, I would be asking to see every man's 'for you' page on his socials. I think that tells us everything we need to know.
2025-03-13 19:51:46
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void_princess :
I just don't want to be with a person who doesn't value all humans. a person who could hate purely due to love (same sex). a person who thinks they have more right to my body than I do. /1
2025-03-11 21:07:40
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Amanda Lee :
also, keep in mind they absolutely lie about their values to get relationships. happened to me
2025-03-11 20:16:39
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Nikki D :
👏👏👏💯💯💯👏👏👏💯💯💯
2025-03-11 13:14:42
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Non Crazy Crazy CatLady :
Personally I start by asking them “so… are you an intersectional feminist?” their reactions to it tells me almost everything I need to know 🥰
2025-03-12 08:28:20
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Village Herbalist :
This of course assumes they are telling the truth. Those guys attitudes and views may be more radically different than they say. They tell what they think you want to hear. They'll go back to default
2025-03-13 09:23:55
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✨IAmRLP✨ :
I got with a man who lied about his views until we moved in together who then screamed at me for hours when I attended a BLM protest. like ... are men okay???
2025-03-12 17:31:02
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kara :
how is anyone thinking marriage is a good idea ? I figured out that marriage was a scam in about 1985. come on people.
2025-03-11 22:43:25
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TamsinDC :
💯 💯💯
2025-03-12 00:17:17
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Rebecca :
But what happens when her body changes due to pregnancy? What happens when she ages? Men who value women only for how they look want to possess an object, not to partner a person.
2025-03-12 10:22:27
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TJ :
Minneapolis, and especially the suburbs, are filled with men like Ben.
2025-03-16 13:56:34
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