@jimmyonrelationships: External vs internal

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nerdymak
Mak :
yep this ruined a relationship for me and now I use chat gpt for my processing because everyone hates an external processor
2025-03-13 17:48:22
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orange.bees
isa! :
i’m an external processor because i have TOO many thoughts, it’s too jumbled and confused and i get topics and sentences mixed up, it’s like dyslexia for thoughts
2025-03-13 05:22:34
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ilovecoffeejaelly
Jae :
tiktok really said "for you"
2025-03-12 13:00:48
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liverwart
Jordy :
Sometimes an “internal processor” just doesn’t (want to) process.
2025-03-12 20:14:10
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dante.irl
Dante ✨ :
I wonder if there's a correlation with attachment styles.
2025-03-12 13:40:32
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ultraenigma
UltraEnigma :
A lot of external processors think they are good communicators when they're just talking a lot of mostly irrelevant thoughts. They like to repeat things over and over.
2025-03-13 04:18:27
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fnstaylor
Faith :
as the internal processor married to an external processor, it's important to reframe it as you're their safe space to share their thoughts. what a privilege that is.
2025-03-12 16:51:15
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thiccfatal
thiccfatal :
This one is extremely real as an internal processor
2025-03-12 13:21:52
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abu_wafi0o
Bigfoot🤍💚🏆🥇بطل النخبتين :
I m an intel processor
2025-03-12 15:42:01
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chilomonster
chilomonster🍉 :
My internal processor husband loves my external processing bc he says he likes the way I think lol but his internal processing is sooooo stressful for me 😅
2025-03-21 17:30:28
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scruffythrone
scruffythrone :
For me, it's not so much as the words are being used against me. It's often more like I don't want to say something that will hurt them so I take time to think about it before I say it.
2025-03-12 20:30:08
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pixel_2810
pixel_2810 :
I was an internal processor until i started therapy and now i like to say that i do therapy by myself (or next to my BF) to calm down my anxiety
2025-03-12 15:22:08
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v1ciosa
Icky Vic :
my bf is external and i’m internal but i like to listen to him figure things out and he doesn’t worry because he knows i have to process things internally
2025-03-13 02:16:02
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onhereyapping
onhereyapping :
I regularly feel bad as an external processor cause I know it has to be hard to deal with 😩
2025-03-16 01:43:27
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nikki_pope
nikki 🦋 :
i appreciate you for putting on that wig & making things make sense for me
2025-03-12 15:14:05
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axceliacurious
Olympia Precious :
this is better than avoidant, anxious, and disorganized
2025-03-12 20:45:21
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professor.mulberry
professor.mulberry :
I'm the external processor and he's internal. I definitely understood this one a lil too well. help 😩
2025-03-12 13:44:02
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deathdual
deathdual :
I thought this was about PC's at first
2025-03-13 02:02:21
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moncherix3
️ :
I fear.... I am both equally but somehow also disproportionately
2025-03-18 21:31:50
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tohfreaky
Toby :
Ya’ll not hearing him tho!!
2025-03-12 13:03:56
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matcat75
Matty J :
Raise your hand for the External processing Avoidant attachment styles! 😥
2025-03-12 18:25:46
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thebisexualvillain
Alex the Badass :
this is why we text it out so we can both do it at our own pace.
2025-03-12 17:41:24
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floppenheimer
poppenheimer 🍿 :
we had this conversation and I kept my end of the bargain but he did not, go figure!
2025-03-12 13:57:31
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oddly.nox
OddlyNox :
they were great at communicating ! 🥰
2025-03-12 13:36:05
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whyhellotherrre
My Name Here :
In my experience, an “external processor” is just someone looking for validation. You find out “which thoughts are important” based off the reactions of those around you. Self centered behavior
2025-03-12 23:35:48
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