@loriwheeler: Telling someone “no” is not selfish or rude, it’s protection of peace and respect for yourself. If you go deeper with your people pleasing, you realize it’s about your own insecurities. When you focus there, the guilt disappears. #guilt #loriwheeler #relationships #confidence #secureattachment
Yes 🙌 My therapist called this “manufactured guilt” bc saying no to take care of myself isn’t doing something wrong. My feeling that way was manufactured by my abusive upbringing.
2025-03-13 03:11:34
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Morgan :
👏 This is all so true.
2025-03-12 13:11:06
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alto.momma :
Yes to this❤️and I do this more often too
2025-03-17 15:50:51
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Sandy🆘🇺🇸 :
I’m working on it, can’t wait to get there. Thanks for the help 😊
2025-03-12 17:35:11
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aimipb :
💝💝💝
2025-03-12 19:59:23
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jojo :
💯!! 🌹❤️
2025-03-12 13:42:26
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dee mutafis :
💯💯💯
2025-03-30 13:19:09
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TonyaB :
What if it’s your child?
2025-03-14 04:22:04
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