@ginithomas: Grief is so complicated. I still feel connected to Joe, but I’m also moving forward with my life. I am constantly searching for signs that I’m doing the right thing and making the right choices. Maybe this is a reach, but it gives me some comfort. Sachin is a doctor, affiliated with the University of Alabama. The mascot is Big Al, an elephant. There are elephants everywhere. I didn’t know the traditional 14th anniversary gift was ivory or something elephant themed until today. It all seems to make sense, though.❤️ #grief #widowlife #anniversary #tryingtolive #lovewins #elephants #traumasurvivor #amputeelife #abovekneeamputee #findinghappiness #signsfromtheotherside