Steph the Attachment Professor
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Wednesday 12 March 2025 23:49:26 GMT
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LexisFromTexas :
And that's why I went low contact.
2025-03-13 00:26:00
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pammunist :
The biggest downside to learning EQ is realizing how the majority of people around you have little to no emotional maturity and that can be really lonely, even if you do attend to your own needs.
2025-03-17 20:00:35
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amanda :
This is the tough part of being a therapist too. Either I’m “too therapisty” (ie using healthy skills) in conflict, or I’m acting “surprisingly unhealthy for a therapist” 😪
2025-03-13 18:28:13
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BD Noises :
My mother is 88 and it’s so strange recognising her as an old woman but a child inside.
2025-03-17 08:41:31
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graceingland :
Damn!! And that’s why reparenting while parenting has be choosing estrangement and divorce. I only have enough energy for my real babies
2025-03-13 01:28:24
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NellyNoodle😚 :
The more I learn the less I can relate to others.
2025-03-14 09:54:33
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KoshkaRiley🇨🇦 :
I find as I get emotionally more mature life gets boring so every now and then I love going unhinged again and it’s even more fun because I’m aware of what I’m doing
2025-03-14 15:11:41
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elle_see :
Wow! That’s what it is! I’m having to gentle parent people that aren’t my child. Haha
2025-03-13 03:46:20
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forevergreen1989 🎹🎶 :
This is exactly why I went no contact 😢 I will check out the group!
2025-03-16 19:19:07
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Mckenna :
This!!! So accurate. I was frustrated why I was so extra triggered last time when I thought I had made progress
2025-03-13 15:00:53
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Simple :
Oh, what a dreamm.. To find your (emotionally mature) people and live the life😂
2025-03-14 07:42:02
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still__Deb 🇨🇦 :
yes
2025-10-07 20:29:53
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Melysa Cook :
Oof 😂 ...She's not gonna like this.
2025-03-14 14:56:18
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thots.and.players :
when someone is having a tantrum and i don't get sucked into a tantrum too i get called "too logical"??? like sorry was i supposed to yell or something?????
2025-03-27 22:30:06
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I am trying :
aaaaand that's why I broke contact with them.
2025-03-25 11:29:45
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Leigh N. :
Or just let go and accept them for where they're at. Find connection in other relationships with those who are capable.
2025-03-13 03:06:12
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DevoDevoux 🍉🏳️⚧️🌈✊🏽✊🏿✊🏻 :
Im actually going throu exactly this with my mother & its weird because I can stay grounded &handle my emotional triggers with a lot of other people but with her specifically & the specific things shes triggering it makes me want to have nothing to do with her at all, especially because she drags me back into a not even an old pattern, but some of my lowest vibrations & its weird to be even in those places because I have long surpassed those points in particular I didnt think Id be revisiting it
2025-03-13 20:07:33
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windywendy26 :
Hence no contact
2025-03-15 15:10:10
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_knockoutcharlie :
It actually became easier for me because i stopped expecting a deeper relationship. I can do a shallow cordial conversation in my sleep.
2025-03-13 16:40:36
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Becca :
You should read the dance of anger
2025-03-15 22:20:49
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Plugged in/NotCharging😭 :
🙌🏻
2025-03-13 00:01:21
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Alyssa :
meanwhile they say, "I am working so hard in this relationship," and, "You are not a kinder person than me." 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 even though im doing 95-99% of the emotional labor
2025-04-06 22:56:07
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LouiseMonday :
yessss I needed this reminder today
2025-03-14 14:24:07
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Feminine Chaos Dragon :
Hmmm, sounds terrible. I’ll pass.
2025-03-14 15:58:24
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Lady Fomo :
This makes me want to go listen to that song Labour haha
2025-03-13 02:53:09
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SmellRanger :
👏👏👏exhausting
2025-03-13 00:23:29
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mkartisan62 :
It is exhausting!
2025-06-05 10:44:46
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bdahbdahbdah :
It is the opposite for me, when I become emotionally mature I notice I put boundaries to emotionally immature people ..
2025-05-07 17:53:31
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Jhéani | Cycle Breaker 🕊️ :
So unbelievably exhausting.
2025-04-29 07:53:57
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A Bitch in Progress :
Yeahhhh... I don't really bother anymore, I just engage with the ones who are on the same level.
2025-04-27 12:42:12
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Victoria Lefevre :
😂😂😂
2025-04-22 16:10:02
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Winnie💛 :
as a nerodivergent thanks for putting this into words for me... I just found your page and I am so thankful I did... thank you... you're content is so helpful
2025-04-18 21:47:00
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Stephephanie :
Yeah REALLY re-defining what a "loved one" is to me now
2025-04-13 19:26:22
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Rani De Jonghe :
Yeah, i can’t do that. I end up dipping out.
2025-04-03 11:49:37
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Tom 🍉 :
No I don’t. They never made the space for me the boundaries stop at no.
2025-03-14 00:55:19
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Dave Jonson :
Support Comes From those that you don’t except I have an important gift for you I will be Glad if you reach out HMU 🤙🫶🏽😇
2025-03-13 00:01:31
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