@mackenzieherman: And honestly, from the comments I’ve gotten, sometimes could be longer. Hang in there. Go no contact. #nocontact #theyalwayscomeback #whenwilltheycomeback #avoidantattachment #avoidant #anxiousattachment

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doyoukasasa
Kyle Christopher :
Not all avoidants come back. Especially when they don’t have the capacity to deal with how they hurt you.
2025-03-16 16:09:32
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mr_chase88
Mr_Chase88 🇵🇦 :
Avoidant people are mentally draining
2025-03-17 17:43:40
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marilisgs
𝑀𝒶𝓇𝒾𝓈𝑒𝓁 :
Im no longer waiting. I still love him, but I love myself more.
2025-03-16 16:55:14
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lemonsinabasket
lemon :
He came back after 10 years like nothing happened 😂
2025-03-16 16:22:53
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gina_clingan
Gina Clingan :
4 years. Took him 4 years.
2025-03-17 05:32:20
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getaway_car2
Lu :
actually the EXACT answer is: as soon as i feel like I’m getting over it✨ i swear he has some kind of radar. if i am truly, mentally starting to move on, suddenly he appears!
2025-03-17 14:42:59
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pon09033
🍮 :
Yall broke up they're not "your avoidant" anymore 😭
2025-03-16 18:53:34
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awallbby
🌙🖤ᴬˢʰˡᵉʸ A ⱽᶦᶜᵗᵒʳᶦᵃ🖤⚡️ :
mine ghosted me and came back after 8 months. Told me I didn't deserve it and apologized. Six months later he did it again. 1 year later (last weekend) he called me from my mom's phone. Talked to me
2025-03-17 05:16:49
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nikkisnow0223
Nikki Marie 💫🌙🌟 :
I just blocked mine. I wish I never met him.
2025-03-16 20:33:27
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nnotdevan
Notdevan :
How about 2yrs 😂😂🙏💀❤️💔💔💔
2025-03-16 14:39:56
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brittney_ann
Brittney :
As someone who was an avoidant but got herself in therapy - never, ever, ever take them back until they’ve gone to therapy. And still don’t take them back. I beg of you.
2025-04-05 20:24:32
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dthomas.888
Dylan Thomas 👑✨️ :
12 months, 1 week to realize I was abused for 4yrs and I deserve unconditional reciprocated love now
2025-03-16 15:02:57
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amutableearth
Leanna :
I just hung up on mine this morning and blocked them immediately. Absolutely insane behavior. I’m over it. They better not come back.
2025-03-16 16:27:25
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its_nellypooh
NellyPooh :
mine are too scared of me to come back 🤣 and that's just how i like it. don't discard me and think you can come back over here w/o accountability fella 🫵
2025-03-17 00:35:32
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briellellellellelle
Brielle :
I had a guy reach out 5 years after he dumped me. Just saying. They always come back. Even if it’s not as soon as you’d like.
2025-03-17 07:37:15
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pdub861
pwok :
sigh....I will wait a lifetime for her to come back
2025-03-16 19:36:27
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leonietala
Leonie Talamini :
I’m done. No more coming back
2025-03-16 22:23:48
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citylights333
Kathryn Lewis :
that'll give you plenty of time to find someone emotionally available.
2025-03-17 05:17:46
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overthinkerguy2.0
OverthinkerGuy2.0 :
Heal and learn to regulate your emotions and nervous system. Once you master this and cultivate self-love, you'll notice a shift in the kind of people you choose to date. Even if you find yourself with an avoidant partner again, you'll approach the relationship from a place of strength and self-awareness. The key is nervous system regulation. I promise it will make all the difference.
2025-03-17 06:48:48
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savage_sophie88
Sophiemyh88 :
Do👏not👏wait👏 wishy washy ppl are not worth wasting precious time on
2025-03-16 22:28:18
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angierich75
Angie Kay Rich :
Mine messaged me after 4 months then he went silent again
2025-03-16 16:14:14
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patriciasanders1984
Citizen of Wonderland :
1st time was a month, 2nd time two months, 3rd time 6 months. This time it’s been a year and I finally don’t care anymore
2025-03-16 21:09:10
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talk_to_tammy
Talk_to_Tammy_ :
My avoidant broke up with me. I blocked him. He won't make the effort. Too afraid. Oh well.
2025-03-17 01:11:09
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me_and_thriving
Michaela :
3 months my friends. The vague apology to put the ball in my court without actually showing incentive.
2025-03-16 14:52:52
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