the phrase 'trust issues' always felt the same as saying 'daddy issues'. It deflects away from the person(s) who caused the issue to put responsibility on the one dealing w/ the trauma instead. Its no
2025-03-24 22:46:14
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Johari :
The reason I don't trust people is not because of learning mistrust from my parents or family members. It is because of the realization that people LIE, based on my interactions with them.
2025-03-25 00:32:08
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AirGuy :
My childhood was marked by gaslighting and manipulation
2025-04-03 08:54:43
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Sunny D :
Or it sucks when you ARE the secure and trustworthy partner, providing safe space for years, and they still don’t want to do the work to heal so they constantly mistrust you. Brokenhearted
2025-03-25 06:46:30
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ReleasebyVR |Trauma Healing :
I struggled with trust issues because both parents never trusted my abilities to make decisions & choices and I was never allowed to have an opinion or explain myself. Took so long to undo the damage.
2025-03-25 08:18:43
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Zach :
I never had trust issues until I started dating, but I’ve been right every single time so 🤷
2025-03-27 01:40:10
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leeci.bee :
I have had a long road to even just recognizing my walls. It’s probably going to take another ten years to tear them down
2025-03-24 23:19:13
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The Reverse Blueprint :
Trust versus mistrust - it becomes the basis for approaching everyone after the parents.
2025-03-25 04:24:03
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Boston babe :
Thank you soooo much for sharing ur wisdom. It’s really opening me up!
2025-03-25 01:37:42
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JayMe :
My parents would repeat the phrase “trust no one” in a dismissive manner any time I would share something.
2025-03-26 16:09:53
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Chika | Parenting :
I definitely agree. If you were told lies throughout your childhood, you learn not to trust people.
2025-03-25 00:47:15
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RealPhilTurner :
And so, what if no one around is secure?
2025-03-25 21:46:16
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missthanggrace0 :
And when I finally start to trust that person but still have some reservations if they do the slightest thing to hurt me it will throw everything off
2025-03-25 15:02:52
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Sarky Scotslass :
never a truer word spoken 👏👏
2025-03-24 22:40:51
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Joshua :
agree, unfortunately, no one has to give you that space
2025-03-26 00:47:52
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Eileen :
Boy do I know about tha as an FA with and ex DA.
2025-03-24 22:48:06
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frstygrl35 :
I trusted so much as an adult. Years of repeated liars, narcissists and gas lighting; now I’m guarded.
2025-04-26 16:25:27
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Caden Storm beyond the scream :
I don't even trust myself
2025-03-25 01:17:04
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Cynnared :
it took me 50 years till I trusted my own intuition/gut when it comes to other people
2025-03-25 00:21:43
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Karen Delgado :
What if i keep meeting new people that lie, and twist narratives?
2025-03-26 00:52:44
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leenee :
I’m in survival mode for 5 yrs and don’t know how to get out 😒
2025-03-27 08:48:03
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ر الأزدية العربية 🏔️♥️💛🤍 :
Exactly
2025-03-25 08:44:11
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furmamaof1 :
Mind blowing 🤯
2025-03-25 22:25:57
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Sara Jaffy :
This also goes for harmful & even abusive people who meet us and present a performative version of what they think we want to see in a person, in a partner
2025-03-26 03:02:24
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ForeverEmy :
Your the best
2025-03-25 11:31:59
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