@whileyouwonder: Did you think ‘everybody’ did that? 👄👀 Where do *you* look? 💬 Autistic people often look less at others’ eyes and more at their mouths, especially as they get older. This isn’t about avoiding connection—it can actually help with understanding speech or social info in a way that feels more natural (Grossman et al., 2019). Other research backs this up too: autistic folks tend to spend less time on eyes and more on mouths when reading facial expressions, which is just a different (and valid) way of processing social cues (Dalton et al., 2005). P.S. What I share is based on my experience as an autistic autism assessor and speech pathologist, the lived experiences of the autistic community, and what I’ve seen across 8 years of autism assessments. These insights reflect common themes I’ve observed in 'clinical' settings, assessment conversations, and client storytelling. It may not apply to everyone, and research is still catching up on a lot of this! While this content is not intended as ‘clinical’ advice, it draws on my lived and professional experience to make space for shared understanding and further discussion. I’d love to see more research in this space, and I’m always open to chatting with or supporting researchers – especially autistic researchers – who feel called to explore and build on these insights. There’s so much more to discover together! #autism #adhd #neurodivergent #autismassessor
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Tuesday 25 March 2025 20:17:51 GMT
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littlemonsterem :
I can't hear you if I can't see your mouth. The mouth provides my subtitles. I also need subtitles when I'm watching things. My hearing is fine, btw. 😆
2025-03-25 20:40:52
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RubyRedPlays :
I watch the mouth but then if their teeth are bad I don't want them to think I'm looking at their teeth so then I panic and look random places I guess
2025-03-25 20:35:41
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DrEa :
yup. I thought i was deaf when the pandemic hit and people wore masks 😳
2025-03-26 18:00:57
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sunniebrown1 :
Not me staring at your mouth while you're talking about staring at people's mouths while they're talking
2025-03-26 22:17:11
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Sarah Brown :
Audio processing disorder has caused me to try to lip read cuz I can’t have subtitles in the real world 😅
2025-03-25 21:17:21
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Mefistogato :
If I don’t watch the mouth i can’t hear 🤗
2025-03-25 23:55:20
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Tressa :
Helps me avoid uncomfortable eye contact AND helps me with my auditory processing disorder. 2 birds with one stone!
2025-03-25 20:33:45
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Clarabelle 💕 :
I didn’t realise how much I did this until covid and the masks…I couldn’t understand anyone 😂 funnily enough that’s also when I was diagnosed autistic..at 34!
2025-03-25 20:27:59
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iSweeetiepie :
I thought it was normal. I thought I was normal. Now with a diagnosis I see how not normal I am in every little thing. It’s hard to deal with alone
2025-03-26 00:37:27
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Rolanda🫠 :
During COVID I couldn’t hear anyone because I couldn’t see their mouth to see the words come out their mouth!! I’m an excellent lip reader because of this!!
2025-03-26 03:24:08
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themrsfranco :
Autism Goes hand in hand with auditory process disorder
2025-03-26 04:26:27
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Revive&Glow :
Me critiquing everyone’s teeth as if I’m a dentist lol
2025-03-25 20:28:38
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Sarah :
I’m more autistic than I thought 🙃
2025-03-25 20:32:14
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Thistlefield :
I have a harder time making eye contact when I'm the one talking. I look everywhere but at the eyes.
2025-03-25 20:25:55
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Gnomish Gniceties | Crochet :
I can't understand people if I can't read their lips while they talk. same reason I can't hear the TV without subtitles
2025-03-25 20:28:11
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PurpleyMoon :
I mean yeah I have audio processing disorder so it helps me understand what they're saying
2025-03-27 16:27:58
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Luna :
Eyes are deeply uncomfortable to me, to the point where I will actively avoid them
2025-03-25 21:10:24
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Monica Neil :
I have an auditory processing disorder and I'm doing it to help me hear 😂
2025-03-26 13:30:00
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GwenBLovely :
it keeps me from looking at one eye and then the other. or feeling cross-eyed looking at the spot between the eyebrows. I have a running dialog in my head to say I can stop looking at their eyes now.
2025-03-26 00:09:00
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laureen :
I actually never noticed until corona hit and I couldn't see the mouth because of the masks and suddenly I couldn't hear them properly 😅
2025-03-25 21:09:14
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CeCeLostHerMoss :
it enrages me when someone's mouth moves funny and I don't like it. I used to avoid people like the plague because they were weird mouth movers.
2025-03-26 10:43:22
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Loren :
I used to until I found out that means you want to kiss. Now I’m scared people will try to kiss me 🤣😂
2025-03-26 03:12:07
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emmao1487 :
Stop calling me out!! 😂 I can not cope with dubbed tv because the words don’t match with the mouths! It’s a massive ick!
2025-03-27 21:45:07
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Spiteful Pixie TaysVersion🇨🇦 :
…. Ummm people who are hard of hearing do this too…
2025-03-26 05:45:35
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thenheartscollide :
🙇🏻♂️ohh
2025-04-17 15:40:56
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