@semibionicbarbie: I recognize that this is an act of relatability but I promise cancer patients don’t need tragic solidarity #cancer #chronicillness #cancersucks #rant #disability #chemo #sarcoma #educational
Oki it’s definitely my autism I’m sorry but I thought I was just trying to bond with u idk how to talk to people 😩
2025-03-27 04:34:36
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Sara Duran | Author :
I have a friend who is 8 months pregnant and she said people literally cannot stop telling her their traumatic birth/miscarriage stories 😭 like read the room PLEASE
2025-03-27 03:30:23
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exactly, so inappropriate and insensitive
2025-03-27 03:27:46
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Simone Nikole199 :
They’re trying to relate but are being idiotic
2025-03-27 06:09:02
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Baylee :
I feel like most people bring it up because they’re trying to relate to you in some way and trying to convey their sympathy towards you but yes it is inappropriate.
2025-03-27 04:28:21
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dez :
people are becoming increasingly more self centered— so they have to make everything about them and find a relation like the people who comment on grieving peoples’ posts “they died on my birthday”
2025-03-27 03:33:11
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Violet13💎💎🍔 :
People are uncomfortable and just don't know what to say. it's a brain glitch. it's not meant as cruel we just don't know what to say and our brain reaches for the closet familiar situation. I'm sorry
2025-03-27 03:55:22
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⚥Killian Rose⚥ :
how do yall feel about hearing about people surviving? I tell people my mom survived as a kid/teen and is almost 51 now as like a hope thing.
2025-03-28 04:55:35
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Anna Lila K :
Its not the same but when I was diagnosed with MS my sister told someone and they said "I know someone with MS. they're in a wheelchair now." and then just stated at her not smiling
2025-03-27 04:45:18
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homoselenia :
People in these comments are missing the point or doing anything to deflect the fact their behaviours have been called out… ughh
2025-03-27 06:30:17
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midwinternight2 :
I think people are (incorrectly) conflating "person who lost someone to cancer" and "person who has cancer" and trying to relate/empathize as if you're mourning a death, which (continued)
2025-04-12 22:20:16
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➺ 𝚂𝚛 🪻 :
people who do this have no empathy whatsoever, I don't care they don't have "bad intentions"
2025-03-27 09:06:25
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noelle 🍊 :
this and "at least you have the good kind" are the worst THERE IS NO GOOD KIND
2025-03-27 04:30:24
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margaux :
people love trauma dumping 🙄
2025-03-27 07:10:45
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Morningsarebannedagain :
I don’t have cancer but an aortic aneurysm- the moment I say that I get “ well at least you’ll be dead in less than 2 minutes “ or they treat me like a timebomb. or “I’m so sorry” like I m dying now
2025-03-27 14:27:32
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shandiroberts :
THIS!!!! I don’t get it, my mom keeps doing it and I’m like dude…
2025-03-27 04:35:49
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Gracie Mae🌟 :
Literally got into an argument with someone over this
2025-03-27 08:13:50
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Gutless :
I'm 20y into a near fatal constantly horrible illness. Between "I'm so lucky I have MY health!" & "OH, I KNOW, my coworker neighbor died of that!"
2025-03-27 13:21:38
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𝔉𝔯𝔦𝔡𝔞 🦇🌙 :
Idk if it was under one of your videos but I saw someone comment that their dog had cancer and had to be put down 😭 Like yeah bro that’s awful but PLEASE read the room
2025-03-27 05:50:04
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raibeau :
I have a theory about this and it parallels why pregnant people get dumped on with tragic stories. Our society keeps us so far removed from heart aches like this that the only people people feel safe
2025-03-27 04:25:17
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Uuuurgg :
Someone is going to tell you its autism and they cant help it. That's what people say now when they are say inappropriate things. 😭
2025-03-27 04:49:08
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Beth :
On the opposite side of that my dad had a grade 3 brain tumor and survived and is cancer free over a year later. You've got this!
2025-03-27 06:40:22
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Faith :
your makeup is so cute today 😍
2025-03-27 03:33:53
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Ach :
I think the only time I’ve ever told someone with cancer about a story it was a friend with cervix cancer about my mom having it at 15 and was still able to have children and survived
2025-03-27 11:02:45
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AidenIsCool :
I don't get why people do that cause you don't know how that's gonna make them feel, like it could make them lose any hope in their treatment (if it's treatable) and it's just strange in general
2025-03-27 03:29:55
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