@theholisticpsychologist: Sometimes the father wound is about the pain he put your mother through.

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heather.same.difference
heather yvonne :
And I was my mother’s emotional support kid. I felt her hurt, deeply.
2025-03-29 03:45:09
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tellit.wren
tellit.wren :
I watched my mother slowly lose the light in her eyes. She gave up on herself. I pray all the time she has the strength to heal, find happiness, and live a meaningful life for herself.
2025-03-29 00:09:46
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chanda_monson52
Chanda_Monson52 :
He was the bread winner so he got to do as he pleased.... abusive to my mother in so many ways. It was painful to watch.
2025-04-28 23:23:21
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hideandseekonfleek
Pork Chops :
My dad took our only vehicle when he & my mom divorced, he left her w/no car & she had all us 5 kids. We walked everywhere. As an adult I told him how inconsiderate that was of him & how we would cry from having to walk so far to places & my lil brother was just 5. My poor mom.
2025-03-29 01:51:36
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itseasytobekind_
It’s easy to be kind! :
He drained her dry. She learned to expect nothing and stop dreaming. She died and he’s still around. I hate that.
2025-03-29 12:14:49
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pottsny
pottsny :
Thank you. I too often blame my mother for being in crisis when i grew up without connecting it to my father’s behaviour. This was important for me to hear.
2025-03-29 01:30:57
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sandraroduitgenx
sandraroduitGenX🇨🇭 :
This! My dad died 4 years ago, my mom 6 years ago. I just started to realise how much damage this man did to our family by treating my mom so badly.
2025-03-29 08:51:51
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crfivehundred
CR500 :
I hate my dad
2025-03-29 04:57:13
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alionabirukova
Aliona Birukova :
could this wound turn into postponed PTSD in adulthood?
2025-05-07 20:44:22
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cherokee_on_tiktok
Cherokee on tiktiok :
This Garbage trying to Villianize fathers studys prove children are better with fathers in the home as a nuclear family or children living with a single father they do better
2025-03-30 13:27:59
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honchking
honchking :
But what if I have a wound for both?
2025-03-29 00:24:52
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lessfaker
tess :
My dad would hurt my mom and then she would protect herself by joining forces with him to hurt me and blame everything on me. Would love insight into scapegoated child family dynamic.
2025-03-29 02:17:00
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dagnytaggartatlas
Dagny Taggart :
What about what happens when the mother chooses to leave this, and how successful he is to make himself the victim and making the kids hate or resent mother? Cuz my heart is so broken by this.
2025-03-29 00:55:27
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skinpixie
Skin Pixie :
This is gold! I pray both of my daughters see this. It’s devastating to live in survival mode. And breaks my heart to this day. What he did and my reaction. I should have just walked. Years ago.
2025-03-30 21:35:03
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badaboombee
badaboombee :
Is there something for the opposite?? A good dad who struggles because of the mother’s negative behavior or actions?
2025-03-29 14:18:02
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solaisus
HE’S ALLERGIC TO BEANS🌈🦋 :
She always has to do everything (cooking, cleaning etc…) and if she doesn’t he gets frustrated. My mom told me she found no meaning in her life and was waiting for death 💔 this broke my heart.
2025-03-29 00:33:58
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anita.jimenez808
Anita Jimenez :
My father and my mothers best friend killed my mother in a car “accident”,got away with it,married,he nearly killed “mothers best friend “ divorced 5 years later,both lived miserably both passed away
2025-03-29 14:22:29
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shawnzoned
shawnzoned :
As soon as I saw that, my children saw how he treated me, I left. I didn’t want them thinking that was OK.
2025-03-31 00:10:19
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k.justk
K :
My mother has dementia— her short term memory is just gone. I’m 100% sure it’s bc 60 years with my dad made her brain just clock out as a form of protection.
2025-03-30 12:48:15
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captainfatcat
captainfatcat :
He was always very angry and would be so rude to her. He thought he had a free pass to be a horrible guy. I never stuck up for her and I have shame with this.
2025-03-29 00:12:59
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elizabethlxo777
Liz :
Is there a mother wound video
2025-03-29 00:03:49
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adrielesilva07
Adriéle :
That's why I have issues with relationships 😁
2025-03-29 01:54:58
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axelbalisani
axelbalisani :
So very true - even the positives (how he expresses tenderness towards our mother, or tries to comfort her, make her laugh, or laughs with her) is something we absorb like a sponge and recreate later in our relationships (mostly unconsciously, and realize only after introspection).
2025-03-29 03:02:09
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marinelamanastirli
Marinela Manastirli :
That’s the hardest part knowing your daughters are watching you go through
2025-03-30 04:23:01
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tannalizing
Tannalizing :
My Dad hurt my mother so much. Emotional, physical and mentally. He is just a mean man.
2025-03-29 16:02:06
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