Laurie ☀️
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Saturday 29 March 2025 17:17:00 GMT
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Woman Inc :
But let’s be honest, “come if you want” = “I’m only asking to be polite and I actually don’t want you to come” AuDHD here and I think we’re aware enough to know when someone doesn’t want us there.
2025-03-29 20:27:51
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Sleepy12342💙 :
I had no idea that RSD is why I absolutely can't stand "if you want to"
2025-03-29 17:30:11
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🃏T_Joker51255🃏🦾GEN❌ :
“If you want…” always makes me feel like ‘they’re only inviting me to be polite or feel like they’re friendship obligated to do so’ and it’s not genuine
2025-03-30 11:49:34
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Every Good Story Needs A Sam :
unless I get an explicit invite I'm not going. "come if you want" implies they don't want me there and are begrudgingly asking me.
2025-03-29 20:29:36
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𝑀𝒶𝓇𝒾𝑒 :
I have AuDHD and RSD and “you can come if you want” would be them saying ‘if you come, it’s because you want to, not because I want you to’
2025-03-31 13:26:51
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Andy :
ADHD here. If I wasn’t involved/invited in the planing of said “fun” then I wasn’t ment to go with. Nothing personal just how I deal with RSD.
2025-03-29 19:17:32
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mel 🧡 :
Them making the plans already without asking me, is enough for me to feel so bad about myself and feel so unwanted 🤣
2025-03-30 00:49:35
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QT OzzySalvatore :) :
This explains a lot 😭
2025-03-30 14:08:37
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Rachel :
Me "unless every person involved in these plans confirms that they don't mind me joining, I will feel like I am intruding."
2025-03-29 23:44:29
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alex :
'You can come if you want' sounds like the person is being polite by extending the invitation but they really don't want me to come.
2025-03-30 09:16:55
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crayfish8080 :
I think RSD is the worst part of having ADHD! It’s so difficult for other people to understand. 😢♥️
2025-03-29 17:22:30
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Lugos & Friends :
ADHD or not, I wouldn't want to be half assed invited when plans for two were already made. If I'm not important enough to invite I shouldn't go. Imho
2025-03-30 04:25:54
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K :
‘We already made plans and bought tickets’ is where i would feel rejected. Didnt invite me or buy me a ticket but invited when i found out about it.
2025-03-30 07:17:08
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🌈Liam S🏳️🌈 :
😭😭 ME 😭 It's truly the worst
2025-03-30 16:18:33
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lizstanwell55 :
Didn’t even think “if you want” wasn’t a “we’d love you to come”. If they didn’t want me they wouldn’t say come along
2025-03-30 22:49:35
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Lambent World :
ive got that vampire tism fr fr 😭 I need a personal invitation or i feel like a ✨burden✨
2025-05-14 03:04:29
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ADHDperformanceacademy :
RSD isn’t about overreacting. It’s linked to emotional dysregulation that occurs in ADHD. The brain triggers a fight and flight reaction. It’s better to learn to reframe the thoughts yourself
2025-04-03 15:01:39
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The_Red_Queen :
This is why details and terminology matter!!!
2025-06-25 14:33:52
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myself_and_adhd :
Rejection is the worst! I even get that feeling from strangers on the street!!!!!!
2025-04-03 13:48:06
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pomegranatefly :
Brilliantly put
2025-03-29 20:57:45
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e_soccerstar2.0 :
I have adhd and thought I was the only one who felt like this
2025-04-05 20:02:59
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Pearl :
Shuthi lento nginayo
2025-04-01 05:28:02
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Simo :
The difference between "I want you there" and "You can come if you want" is massive. It shouldn't be hard for anyone to understand and accommodate.
2025-03-30 19:41:10
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E-Thereal✨Bae✨ :
Realizing the loss of a friendship over ADHD
2025-06-03 07:19:44
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Elisha :
So spot on
2025-03-30 16:23:12
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