@forever_victoria_: 1. Stop chasing him. You’re not here to audition for a man’s attention. Don’t text first. Don’t ask to meet. Don’t “just check in.” You’re the woman he thinks about not the one begging to be seen. If all he sends is “hey how are you?” ignore it. That’s not effort. That’s background noise. 2. Be warm, but unavailable. Smile. Be kind. But don’t overinvest. He shares his problems? Cool listen, but don’t solve. He asks when you’ll meet? Say: “I’ll try to find time, but I can’t promise anything.” Mystery makes him chase. Access kills desire. 3. Be inconvenient. Yes inconvenient. You don’t go along just to be agreeable. He invites you to a movie you don’t like? “No thanks, not my thing.” Wants to meet at some basic café? “I’m actually craving Japanese today.” You’re not here to please. You’re here to be chosen. 4. Stay busy and don’t explain. You don’t need to say: “I was at the gym, then nails, then brunch with the girls…” Just say: “I was busy.” That’s enough. Let his imagination work overtime — it’ll drive him wild. And let’s be clear: These aren’t tools for building healthy love. They’re for men who breadcrumb, ghost, and play games. But if you see he’s actually a decent man? Drop the strategy. Be yourself. And he’ll rise to meet you. Know your value. Love yourself. And he will too.

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