@augustknoxcoaching: Making people feel guilty, shameful or wrong of leaving abusive situations… is also abusive. It’s asking someone to continue to tolerate what hurts them, destroys them or could even kill them in the name of keeping family together. But who is requiring the abusive party to change? If you shame or treat someone poorly who is trying to do what’s healthiest for themselves, you are also part of the problem by enabling those who hurt them. If someone has had to make this terribly hard decision, your opinion is not needed. Either give support and if you can’t do that, simply be quiet and allow them to care for themselves in the ways they deem necessary for themselves. ************************************************** Not therapy. Content based on my own personal views, experiences & study. #narcawareness #narcabuse #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcabuserecovery #traumarecovery #traumainformed #traumabonding #traumabond #traumaresponse #traumaresponse #traumarelease #somaticexperiencing #somatichealing #somaticmovement #ptsdrecovery #ptsdwarrior #ptsdtherapy #healingtrauma #healingtools #empaths #empathsofinstagram #empathsbelike #childhoodtrauma #empathsupport
Blaming your parents may feel like justice, without understanding what shaped them,you may repeat the very system they inherited.
Estrangement without reflection doesn’t break the cycle.
It seals it.”
2025-05-01 10:46:18
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annettesukhram :
What do you consider abuse? Not getting your way? It works both ways.
2025-04-04 15:06:08
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ertzui :
thank you for finding such a clear way to express it
2025-07-07 16:10:48
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Kimberly Wehrheim :
The problem here is that I’m seeing way too many adult children going no contact not due to abuse……..or anything specific, mostly for not doing everything the kid wants them to do
2025-05-04 17:18:27
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lillian0405 :
I'm so sick of this shit I was sexually abused by my dad, physically and emotionally abused by my mum. had 4 kids hoping for a family, only now they are in their 30s they decide I wasn't a good mum !
2025-04-06 18:51:13
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inkjunkee7 :
Just because we are bound by blood does not obligate them to spend time with us. you have to earn that
2025-04-02 19:00:58
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user85980212370181 :
Why haven’t we seen more cases in courts if all these parents were abusive, toxic, why didn’t schools pick up on these children that had a bad home life. These poor adult children no childhood 😢
2025-04-05 08:53:55
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daveymh :
Protect your peace but always leave the door open. You may change or they may change. Its not about winning or losing its about healing and growing
2025-04-03 11:31:47
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user9526954157528 :
And what if they were never abused? What if your child is a narcissist?
2025-05-23 20:39:49
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stasiarob :
sometimes it IS the adult children....sometimes it is NOT... we can't keep blanketing EVERY situation as the same
2025-04-26 02:31:14
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Peaceful Life :
The parents that are hurt and complaining have not abused their children in any way. People that have abused their children are hiding in shame afraid they will be disclosed. The parents are shocked and deeply hurt when rheir children dont even allow us to fix the relationship. Cant fix it if we dont know what we did.
2025-05-26 03:35:59
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alisonjaynepresto :
Dear Parents,
We were ur choice.
You weren't our choice.
2025-05-19 11:19:14
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wrcxp7 :
No blame. There are two sides to a story.
2025-04-29 22:47:10
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SusanMelinCA :
Lots of narcissistic adult children out there. 😞
2025-05-25 23:51:40
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CeCe Chosen By God 🙏🏽✝️ :
Exactly! I'm sick of it! 💔
2025-04-03 09:34:56
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Evergreen Roots Boutique :
No one can make you feel any such way without your consent.
2025-05-23 04:41:28
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RedandRosie :
Narc parents have zero interest in an actual relationship, they just have to blame us for that to stay the victim.
2025-04-26 15:25:43
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Gretchsky :
Thank you for this. I’ve come across some of their rampages today and it’s ridiculous. When you’ve been hurt and continue to be hurt well into your adult life, it’s time to say good bye. ✌🏼
2025-04-02 23:32:51
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Democracy :
I’ll never condone that. But no contact kids are equally abusive.
2025-05-05 08:41:16
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feral feet :
There’s a mum on here with quite a following and the comments they write about their own children is really telling. As a mum It’s my job to maintain the relationship with my children.
2025-04-06 12:56:12
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JJStyles :
100% Agree Thanks For Sharing, No One Should Be Allowed To Tell Someone How To Feel Or Minimize Their Emotions.
2025-04-30 17:53:15
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GenXDoc99 :
Most adult children’s definition of abuse is false.
2025-05-06 16:30:40
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Danielle 🇨🇦🇫🇷 :
Just saw a lady who posted an abusive TT about her “entitled kids” 🙄 ZERO self reflection or accountability. Gee I wonder why they are NC
2025-04-07 05:18:52
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Melissa Kay Clemmons :
And then those who never suffered any of this jump on the bandwagon and discredit those who actually suffered
2025-04-24 18:21:17
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