It’s also terribly lonely; the relationships I thought I had no longer exist, now that I’m no longer willing to go against my boundaries & people still close to me struggle to connect with “new” me
2025-04-03 16:33:49
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Jenuine :
I saw a quote that is so fitting here “I’m not even being mean, I’m just not actively making you comfortable”
2025-04-04 11:49:26
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Marivel 🇲🇽 🇺🇲 💙 G-7 :
You are speaking to me. Thank you so much.
2025-04-03 14:10:42
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Wendy Gillespie247 :
My God I wish I heard this many many years ago...Thank you 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
2025-04-03 14:58:20
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Rachelle :
Thank you for sharing, I have been healing and going from a sensitive soul people pleaser to pleasing myself more than I do others. It is hard and uncomfortable but proud of my progress.
2025-04-03 17:26:57
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DQG :
Very well explained x
2025-04-14 09:19:08
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Natalie Stratton :
Thank you I needed this today!!!! Makes so much sense 🥰
2025-04-03 14:38:04
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13halle :
What if you do both for different people
2025-04-03 14:54:03
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MINDSET.know_your_worth 🇨🇦 :
Well said thank you for this video. Needed to hear this one. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
2025-04-03 14:16:17
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stardust_4099 :
Recovering ppl-plsr here! I have, GR8FULLY, finally learned the art of boundaries. After many failed attempts to do this, it wasn’t until I committed to self-care and learning self-❤️that it now easy
2025-04-03 14:40:33
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Thea Swaim Harold :
You are beautiful.
2025-04-05 08:45:21
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jenberryman610 :
It’s not even that we feel guilt the people around us make us feel guilt for setting boundaries healthy boundaries. It’s a crazy cycle.
2025-04-29 11:00:21
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user8847864872120 :
Thank you, I get it
2025-04-03 15:56:50
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.epic4life :
Yes it’s way fucking hard!!! I don’t always master it yet
2025-04-03 14:34:55
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blahbideblah :
I went both ways
2025-04-03 23:00:53
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~J E S S~ :
yes❤️🔥Thank you
2025-04-03 17:40:43
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dudewheresmylight :
Thank you
2025-04-17 18:31:33
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NATO :
whats the difference between doing nice things for your partner and people pleasing , is there ?
2025-05-24 22:10:26
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Leslie Ellis :
I always called it having finesse lol
2025-04-16 02:10:58
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sheila🌸🌼🌺 :
Enegram test showed me I was a people pleaser & changed my perception of myself & others. It showed me my roll in it. I took accountability & made some major changes & it was difficult but so worth it
2025-04-03 15:13:55
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C Aimée Savoie :
People pleaser in the middle of healing here. What if after you have been thru the “mean” and “guilty” feeling, you realise you are very lonely cause everyone doesnt seem to like the real you. 1/2
2025-05-04 21:09:16
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Chloe :
I’m not strong like you but I have finally stopped pleasing
2025-04-05 16:00:23
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Linda 🇿🇦 :
yes you are explaining it well. I do feel guilty when I set boundaries. but I know I must for myself
2025-04-03 15:27:02
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Vette_K🇨🇦 :
I am doing this at the moment, the guilt can be intense, but now I know I don’t have to feel guilty about the guilt! I am on track. Thank you
2025-04-03 18:00:51
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@Gerry :
Great stuff... Love it 🥰
2025-04-03 20:09:57
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