@drewwdaniels: How to connect with an Avoidant Attachment! #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #relationshiphealing #trauma #anxiousattachment #relationshipproblems
We wanna work w avoidant partner. Problem is, THEY dont wanna work LOL
2025-04-07 10:10:55
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Gubben I Lådan :
"I need space" = Indefinitely
2025-04-04 03:14:57
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feathers8133 :
I’m not even joking, the answer I would get on all of these is “I don’t know”
2025-05-10 03:01:19
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tcarter138 :
Wait a minute. my avoidant partner doesn't want to work with me. I'm not too hurt to ever try to solve a problem but he is.
2025-04-04 09:40:32
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Eden :
Issue is they don't know their own mind or feelings half the damn tjme 😭
2025-04-04 12:25:21
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user87654432322 :
I'm sorry to say it but, as an avoidant, all of this is too confrontational and going to result in immediate shutdown.
2025-04-03 20:37:34
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Shernette miller :
LEAVE RELATIONSHIP ALONE IF YOU DONT WANT ATTACHMENT 😩😩😩!!!!
2025-04-05 00:56:38
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Teazert Tea :
“ I don’t know “… “I have to think about it “ … “this isn’t a good time “ 😒😒😒
2025-04-20 00:03:47
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Serenity :
I keep getting "I don't know" or "I need to process"
2025-05-11 03:10:56
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PrinsenAvRis :
"we already talked about this 😡😡😡" (we have never)
2025-04-06 11:20:12
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Mary :
I’ve decided I’m done with avoidants. Next please
2025-04-06 00:16:44
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kimber couch :
Being with an avoidant is so draining.
2025-04-06 01:59:07
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AK :
honestly, no offense but that's too much work. There is a lot to do in this life, can not stop your daily life for someone who doesn't know how to communicate and love. I'm sorry, gotta let go of them
2025-04-04 14:08:24
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xXPaul462Xx :
They dont always work cause i asked all these questions and all i got was “im stuck”. She disappeared anyway.
2025-04-04 02:14:42
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Elij4ah :
Trick question you don’t you’ll never be enough as long as they always believe their not worthy they’ll always self sabotage and chase their own validation that their not enough save your heart 🫡
2025-04-04 23:01:08
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sadgurltears :
I just deleted mine off socials but didn’t block. He ghosted me after my birthday when HE made the birthday plans 😭 idk if I’ll ever hear from him again..
2025-04-03 19:21:03
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Robyn Gray :
its not up to anyone else to 'get' you to be interested in opening up unfortunately! If you're not interested in being open ... be alone 🤷🏼♀️its a requirement of a healthy relationship.
2025-04-04 20:11:55
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𝐊 𝐀 𝐈 𝐓 𝐋 𝐘 𝐍 ♡ :
you ppl are missing things. some avoidants are aware of tendencies, just don't know how to work toward secure attachment. or haven't gone through self realization that they are avoidant yet.
2025-05-08 22:40:24
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Courtney Gudbranson :
As an avoidant it took a long time to even be able to acknowledge these feelings. I just got the “ick” then recognized patterns… Then was able to look into what feelings lead those patterns of behavio
2025-04-04 17:12:59
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Anamarie 𓏲𝄢 :
he's avoidant but i feel like allllll of these would go very badly
2025-04-05 21:44:25
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Phaseline :
Avoidants are not partners. They are cruel, cold, and evil. Don’t waste your time.
2025-05-11 10:20:37
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babenohaze :
I really really wished I were asked these in my relationships
2025-04-12 16:47:51
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Fluffy_Narwhal :
I'm an avoident who is really trying to be better, and these questions were all super spot on to self reflect! I would love for a partner to ask these and try to understand what I'm working through
2025-04-05 23:08:36
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Jeffrey :
I don’t even know how to get to this point. My avoidant discarded after fault finding and suppressing. Now it’s no contact. Her family says she just needs to sort stuff out. No closure, no discussion.
2025-04-06 04:52:32
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