@drewwdaniels: If you’re a man who avoids your partner- your wake up call is the moment it’s “never a good time” to talk about the relationship. #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #relationshiphealing #anxiousattachment
You never feel like a priority with a partner like this
2025-04-06 19:41:59
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alludelain :
his fyp not mine thanks
2025-04-05 13:27:35
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Icarus :
Wow... These comments suck. Avoidants can't help it until they deal with the CPTSD that caused the avoidant attachment style in the first place.
2025-04-05 17:52:50
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Mr. Wendal :
If they are avoiding you, they are ALWAYS have your replacement to talk to. Shame means nothing in their world. They create it and then avoid it
2025-04-05 10:30:43
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Sammy :
When you avoid a hard conversation you are taking on a debt that you have to repay with interest.
2025-04-07 11:25:41
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that girl :
I don't think avoidant people don't think about how they behave at all.
2025-04-06 19:32:37
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itsjustrara🇯🇲 :
you know what they say...nobody is miew busy than an avoidant😂. I work with heart surgeons all day and they are less busy than my currently unemployed avoidant man😂
2025-04-06 02:43:09
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Cersei Wilson :
Well I am an avoidant in healing. I have learned coping skills and the importance of setting aside time to discuss. The problem is when the partner is chronically dissecting to a molecular level. 😩
2025-04-07 19:59:06
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Mia :
I wanna send this to him but then he'll just see this as an attack.
2025-04-06 03:17:52
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memorei ˚˖𓍢ִ❀ FREE 🇵🇸 :
avoidants can make securely attached people anxious. and they never work on themselves. you tell them how something they did hurt you and they yell saying they're not your therapist. not worth it.
he could tell me the things that bothered him. but I could never talk about things that bothered me. by the end I had no voice. none.
2025-04-07 00:58:07
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Hike & Travel | KEVIN :
Apparently there’s never a good time to have a honest convo with an avoidant. Walking on egg shells. No reciprocation. Exits the relationship cus one Can’t face the shame and is defensive
2025-05-28 05:46:15
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Stephanie Marie. :
With a partner like this- you become unhinged and desperate to be heard by someone who is an avoidant
2025-05-15 18:56:21
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Ooosarahcudaa :
so true. They always have an excuse for why they can’t have the conversation. “Why can’t we just have a good weekend” “why are you bringing this up when I have work tmw” it was tiring.
2025-04-07 05:13:14
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michelle ❤️🔥 :
put this on his fyp bro fr im tired
2025-04-13 17:46:47
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stellarstaci :
Ugh. Yup. Can’t “ruin a good day” or it’s “too tired”.
2025-04-17 20:45:53
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purelightpublishing :
some people are just meant to live life alone, they were once called loners now just rebranded as avoidants let them be and move on
2025-04-07 00:24:19
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Carolyn909 :
Mine started to get sarcastic when I brought up the issue "here comes this old chestnut." but we'd never actually talked about it, just dodged the topic going I'd forget.
2025-04-05 02:47:40
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Madison :
His fyp not mine 🫤
2025-04-21 16:47:41
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Paula Josie :
Oh my God, my ex always did this. “I just woke up. It’s super late. Can’t you see I’m eating? I have enough on my plate already. I’m watching a movie.”
2025-04-26 16:56:11
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sagedwith.sunlight :
I was securely attached before being a relationship for two years w a dismissive avoidant. Spent the last four years healing from that
2025-05-06 20:17:52
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johnnydoctor :
It’s hard for us to accept the emotional openness when it’s constantly weaponized against us.
2025-04-23 22:17:53
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Sommer Leigh :
FA currently with a DA. FA’s do want to talk. DA’s never want to talk or even show up for their partner overall. They are too tired, busy, etc.
2025-05-02 22:35:45
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Connie 💢 :
like dating a big man child move on 🙄 been there done that ain't happening agaim
2025-04-09 21:22:34
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