@arc.woman: Chapel Road recently said that every parent she knows is struggling—and the internet lost it. But let’s be honest: she wasn’t dragging parenthood. She was naming the reality of raising children in a society that offers women little to no structural support. What she said wasn’t controversial—it was just true. Parenting in the modern world, especially mothering, has become a pressure cooker inside a system that was never built for women’s wellbeing. 🏠 Motherhood was never meant to be done in isolation inside a nuclear family on a dual-income grind. It was always meant to be a community project—a shared effort of care, wisdom, rest, and support. Instead, we now ask women to be everything, all the time: full-time worker, full-time mum, full-time partner, full-time housekeeper—and somehow still regulate their nervous systems and balance their hormones? No wonder we’re seeing record-high levels of burnout, PMS, postnatal depletion, thyroid disorders, and cycle irregularities. Because the pressure isn’t just emotional—it’s physiological. Hormones don’t thrive under chronic stress, exhaustion, isolation, or undernourishment. And this is why what Chapel said matters. Because calling it out is the first step to change.
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ky :
I think she’s getting canceled more for the fact that she built her platform off drag queens particularly POC in those spaces but yet can’t be bothered to use her platform to speak up about equality
2025-04-07 19:56:55
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Ggmmbb44 :
POC and 🏳️🌈 are cancelling her cuz she cosplays as drag, which is political in itself & then she says she’s too busy to educate herself on the issues affecting her core audience.
2025-04-07 23:31:10
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fourposesfiveminutes :
(I’m a mother) she’s allowed to talk about her experiences but what I think might be nuanced is her friends that felt they could talk openly with her about their experience of motherhood 1/2
2025-04-07 19:22:29
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Stupendo117 :
Parenting is hard in a capitalist dual income home, it’s hard for everyone involved. I’ve been a stay at home dad for longer than my partner’s been a stay at home mom
2025-04-08 17:35:12
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partykingbaby :
What is natural, then?
2025-04-08 15:36:38
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Rjm12 :
She didn’t get cancelled. She got mocked. Big difference
2025-04-08 21:53:08
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Lace :
🙏I'm a mom and I agree✨
2025-04-07 23:49:24
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tumblecrash :
she was getting called a white feminist too.. I'm a poc and even don't get why she is being villinized. I'm sitting this one out, ppl need a scapegoat rn
2025-04-08 17:33:28
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Hayleigh 🇨🇦 :
I think she doesn't realize that she's in main stream popular culture and there's just gonna be something throw away that you said that always gets blown up. probably why Beyonce never does interviews
2025-04-07 00:18:17
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Gem Mc :
Needed this today. Trying to apply for a new job but am restricted to jobs that work around school time. Eldest is only 11 but in high school = no OSHC. So far my search has found 0. 😫
2025-04-07 03:33:54
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Steve Rogers Channel 10 🇨🇦 :
As a casual observer I find this funny but you don’t have anywhere near the kind of influence Chapel Roan has. That’s the point. You’re pissing up a flagpole while she’s screaming through a megaphone
2025-04-07 17:05:41
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bwahhhhh :
she didn’t really say that. she said parents have no life in their eyes. it was reductive and half baked like most of her statements.
2025-04-07 20:53:57
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Dabielle :
What you’re saying is 100% true. She did not articulate herself like that.
2025-04-07 21:30:49
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SneakysSneaker :
It made me like her more
2025-04-07 04:09:41
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Becci 🌻🌿 :
The children aren’t the problem, it’s everything that comes with it. But I’m a single mum now and have never felt more healthy, feminine and powerful and I experience so much joy raising these babies
2025-04-06 23:12:37
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FooFooFaDoo :
😏 Pretty sure it’s about her thinly veiled political stance.
2025-04-08 11:52:28
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David Villa :
I think you're confused about what she's getting canceled for
2025-04-08 17:19:52
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Yourcousinthrocky :
If you think it's just about that you've really misunderstood some key things about the situation
2025-04-07 01:58:45
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Hannah Vann :
I would of preferred “it’s really hard out there for mothers especially young mothers is what my friends are telling me they are not supported in society or mentally or financially “
2025-04-08 01:49:23
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hizlenry :
Is that what she said?
2025-04-07 22:53:49
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angela.ubias :
She’s getting cancelled for a lot more than that. Weird move underplaying what we’re actually pissed about.
2025-04-07 20:33:58
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M M :
She didn’t say that though. Her message was much less complex than the realities of motherhood.
2025-04-07 17:20:07
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zinamella :
When I was a mother of a young child, working full-time, I kept saying ‘THIS IS CULTURAL INSANITY’
2025-04-07 11:55:58
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Ellen :
Yes except she didn’t say that. It’s one thing to say mothers don’t have the help they need and another to say every mom she knows looks dead in the eyes.
2025-04-08 12:33:51
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Lucyfir63_DryIce🇨🇦 :
That is not what she is saying.
2025-04-08 00:46:10
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Eréndi :
If she would have actually said it anything like that, I guarantee you there would be a lot more support for her sentiments rn. 🙄
2025-04-07 22:10:31
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E Cooke :
Same
2025-04-07 04:13:35
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Spastical :
I lived in remote villages in the Pacific and will never ever see modern parenting as healthy after that.. groups of mum's caring for their children and supporting each other as a group every day
2025-04-07 11:24:37
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berliner.witch :
The Marxist in me got a lot louder once I had kids
2025-04-10 11:17:00
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Fleur :
right but I love being a mom, just hate not having the support
2025-04-07 23:16:07
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Lizeth True :
LOL, she didn’t say that though.
2025-04-08 15:12:18
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Olivia :
But that’s not what she said, queen
2025-04-08 17:38:35
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birdy-num-num :
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 THIS !!!
2025-04-07 04:20:19
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shabba23230 :
Errr that’s not the reason. Shes told black women they need to do more research about politics
2025-04-07 20:34:19
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Nina :
Loooove seeing young women realize this !!
2025-04-09 02:22:59
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user484839230 :
Nah it’s because she was so vocal against Kamala Harris while being completely silent about our current fa$cist takeover lol
2025-04-08 14:13:49
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caesar.saladuprising :
honestly it’s not even about the mother stuff… it’s her crying about being too busy as a rich white woman to be politically informed lmao
2025-04-07 15:21:23
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Dipdidot :
Keep spinning girl
2025-04-08 14:52:29
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FlyOnTheWall :
What is up with the anti Chappell conspiracy? Why does everyone try to cancel her every week over next to nothing? Is it coordinated by swifties or something?
2025-04-08 14:01:07
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banapplesandbonobos🇨🇦 :
Ideal = mom works part time in a professionally preservative environment.
2025-04-08 14:01:23
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Annabelle.bbbbaarons :
😍😍😍
2025-04-16 11:01:14
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miaschicknutrition :
This. Women are not meant to do it all and are suffering! Main driver of hormonal issues. Working full time, up at 5 am to workout and get the kids ready, cook , clean.
2025-04-09 17:26:49
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Natural Law Enjoyer ꑭ :
And the stuff you say daily is rapidly becoming unpopular with the general population. Things are changing.
2025-04-08 17:45:48
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