@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights A crisis friend is an ad hoc term used to describe a false friend who uses hardship for attention and manipulation and who does not support people back. It’s NOT a friend suffering in hardship. That is different. Friendship is about balance and crisis friends only deplete you. Choose yourself because that “friend” will let you down and bring you down with them. #friend #friends #friendship #toxicfriend #crisisfriend #friendissues #fypシ #fypシ゚viral #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp

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thejfc
Jesus Freakin Congress :
Everyone in the comments missing the point that a crisis friend is always in a crisis so everything is always about them, & therefore, nothing can be fully about you.
2025-04-09 04:22:08
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existentialcrashout
Susan :
The crisis friend is usually narcissistic 🥰
2025-04-09 19:31:42
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thewickedwitch5280
Desiree Quintana Conklin 🤘🫰 :
let's normalize not rescuing people, it's just enabling behavior.
2025-04-09 20:55:30
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leahsaurusrex461
Leahsaurus Rex :
It took me 10 years to figure that out. And all it amounted to was becoming another villain in her story. She'll be a victim all her life.
2025-04-08 17:57:58
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seattletennisfan
TennisFan206 :
So true. I used to pride myself on being a “good listener” for folks and then have to fight the resentment of it never ever being reciprocated. Gotta be way more stingy with that skill now.
2025-04-08 18:00:53
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chrystalhermann
Chrystal Hermann :
I was there for her when her mom died and gave her a place to stay when her boyfriend broke up with her. Two years later when my mom died, crickets. She is no longer my friend.
2025-04-08 12:23:35
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frosty_alphachick90
frosty_alphachick90 (Amy)🐅 :
Well said; There's a difference between a crisis friend and a friend genuinely in a crisis.
2025-04-10 10:28:14
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eldritchbisexual
✨Sapphic Shuggie✨ :
People don't read captions fr a Crisis friend is someone that only ever contacts you when they're in trouble and when they need support, but they do not reciprocate
2025-04-09 11:33:03
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gingervirgo
Christine 🧡 :
It’s true. It’s like the coworker you cover a ton of shifts for but when you need coverage it’s radio silence.
2025-04-09 10:06:17
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chatty_writer6666
chatty_writer6666 :
walked away from a 10 year friendship because I was basically her free therapist. whenever I needed help or someone to talk to. she'd want everything to be about her
2025-04-09 01:32:14
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bubi11a
bubi11a :
I think people aren’t understanding what a crisis friend is. Its someone whos focus is solely on themselves for long term. The whole dynamic of your friendship revolves around that other person.
2025-04-08 21:10:34
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userrcedzm0kz6
✨Rat Queen✨ :
That’s why I’m not friends with them anymore
2025-04-08 11:53:28
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thatlitchickwhocrochets
🩷𝓣𝓱𝓮 𝓸𝓻𝓲𝓰𝓲𝓷𝓪𝓵 🩷 :
THIS 💯. That person who goes from drama to drama, that they mostly cause themselves, will not help you if the time ever comes. And if you get angry or hurt, YOU become the next villain and drama.
2025-04-11 07:29:12
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pattyplainjanexo
tara :
They’ll bail on you when you go through something big that’s positive too
2025-04-09 02:57:48
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iwasatomato
iwasatomato :
“Crisis friend” is what I call my mom
2025-04-08 12:06:27
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pseudogoose1
Regan :
it's so fucking true. she won't listen to a damn thing I have to say while I'm going through the hardest thing in my life. just wants to talk about her love life
2025-04-10 02:55:28
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mzmellaj
Mel 🌸💕 :
I disagree i was a crisis friend and i would go to the ends of the earth for my friends and give my last
2025-04-09 13:54:38
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morriganfae0
morriganfae0 :
It’s actually one or the other. Either this person becomes the person you could rely on for literally anything. Or they go on to play the victim in others lives for sympathy.
2025-04-09 00:06:43
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_littlegaby
Gabs :
I am the crisis friend, and always show up. Even if I have to pretend I’m fine. I will say that they might now view me as the “reliable” friend
2025-04-10 22:27:24
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cjtpsyd
Cjtpsyd :
The crisis friends are having a crisis in this comment section 😂😂😂
2025-04-10 12:56:30
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your.boujee.aunt
Cindy Dunne :
A crisis friend is someone who is constantly in crisis - seeking validation and support all the time thru their problems. If you are someone with a hardship and came thru the other side -
2025-04-09 19:43:13
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handsratedeforeverybody
🇨🇩🇨🇬🇸🇸🇸🇩 :
🙄😒 aren't y'all tired of the ableist trends crisis friend really?
2025-04-10 03:56:11
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hudsontaylorgems
Hudson Taylor Gems :
Nope. I was the crisis friend cause life was giving me crisis. Now its not. And i appreciate my friends for showing up. Stop your projecting 🙂
2025-04-08 21:38:59
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mickarthag
mickarthag :
I am lokey the crisis friend and I have crossed oceans to help my friends.
2025-04-08 19:01:01
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