@the.ashfiles: No one tells you when they start—but you feel them. The years where you’re supposed to figure it all out, follow the plan, be someone. We don’t call them anything, but maybe we should. The Pressure Years. ✨
I studied the career I wanted to be as a kid and now I don't want it anymore
2025-04-10 09:10:40
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Rydan🇬🇾 :
Definitely sounds like the 30s, ppl expects you to have everything together by late 30s (the house, the car, the career, the marriage and the children) and the judgement is high😩
2025-04-09 20:57:24
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Perman_Gainter :
I want to be happy. I really just want to be happy
2025-04-10 18:46:25
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I like reading comments :
Let things be
"Maybe the destination is YOU"
2025-04-09 13:26:47
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Netstro :
I love how some people are able to put in words what's on my mind but I can't articulate it as well as they do. 🔥🔥🔥 this is awesome.
2025-04-10 16:30:35
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honeyy_chü :
"who made this timeline? and why does no one seem to question it?" exactly!
2025-04-10 17:50:37
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thokomabizela🇿🇦 :
I'm turning 35 this year got retrenched last year I'm single after being in an abusive relationship for years moved back home. Just yesterday I told myself it's my reset time I'll be fine maybe
2025-04-09 16:05:17
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i@ :
i am my 20s and was a top student .it takes alot of energy to be at the top.but now i am slowing down myself .i am average now in study but i appreciate myself for the hidden battles i fight on my own
2025-04-09 12:26:20
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mihlalingova :
Never felt more understood. Thank you
2025-04-08 16:32:07
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°Esther~Waithira°🐾🪷 :
Petition that adulthood should come with a manual 😂
2025-04-10 21:42:50
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lizziebellegranger🍉 :
32, single. doing phd. thought i wanted to teach later. but now I'm questioning life bcoz life is sombre, mundane, hollow right now. life is so-so & ok, not bad. yet something feels heavy. I'm stuck.
2025-04-10 00:57:38
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Syed Mamoon :
26 and this hits home.
2025-04-10 03:13:13
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Sarah | 40plusjoy :
I’m 46 and am not sure this time is behind me yet.
2025-04-24 21:39:51
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xhewrry :
I saw a post from a graduating students before saying " but what's life after graduation" and I told them find a job, do things you love HAHAH jokes now I'm asking the same question
2025-04-10 13:31:09
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Social butterfly 🦋✨ :
what if I was never behind 😩❤️
2025-04-10 20:08:55
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Mia Hobbes :
I am going to try my best to make this transition as easy as possible for my kids ❤️
2025-04-12 15:53:24
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alex :
Thank you for this reminder ❤️
2025-04-10 23:00:06
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Bravo Felix William :
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2025-04-10 13:23:01
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ceciliamwanzah :
Thank you, I feel seen
2025-04-09 14:47:49
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Liv🍒 :
I'm tiredddddd😭😭😭😭
2025-04-10 13:32:05
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charles mugisha :
Am from Uganda but I learned something called Don't you worry
2025-04-10 20:47:23
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Anyway 😊 :
I wish I could save every single video of yours. They speak to me. The sad part of all of these things I’m not sure if I want them 🤭. I feel so behind but blessed at the same time.
2025-04-08 14:55:49
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Amanda :
I hung around with so many activists and queer people during those years. All of us were failing at making money. None of us got married or had kids. We made our own paths. It was great.
2025-04-10 06:42:13
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Rosco :
who set the time frame
telling myself I'm never too late
2025-04-09 18:29:17
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