@redditrave: My newly engaged friend told me that if my boyfriend really wanted to marry me, he would’ve proposed by now, and I haven’t been able to shake the feeling that she might be right. Posted by u/throwra_annoyed_ward Update (3:38) #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit #redditrave
Her Ex is gonna marry some women 6 months later. He never planned to marry her. She was a place holder until he found the one.
2025-04-10 18:18:56
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Deanna 🇨🇦 :
OP was 100% just a placeholder until he could find something better 😅
2025-04-09 23:44:38
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C💖💕✨ :
it's not about the length of time y'all, it's about aligned values and goals. if u wanna get married in 2 years and he wants to wait 10, what else are you not on the same page about
2025-04-10 11:04:08
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v0id :
marriage culture in the usa is so crazy
2025-04-10 11:23:04
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white_r_i_c_e_ :
Don’t really get why OP got so pressed with Elise, like she asked the questions, and its not like Elise was saying OP wasn’t “wife material” just that in her opinion Luke wasn’t going to propose
2025-04-10 02:38:06
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emma :
"thank you elise" we all say in unison
2025-04-10 17:05:51
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shar :
are yall listening to the whole video ? she said she doesnt want to buy a HOUSE or have KIDS with someone who doesn’t want to marry her and thats literally smart ?? 🤨 are yall ok
2025-04-10 23:08:48
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Patato :
people in the comments did yall forget the point in the story where he literally admitted he doesn't want to marry her??Like he literally broke up with her because she wanted some security guys please
2025-04-10 14:13:09
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SodaSiren :
I told my husband on the first date that I wanted marriage and if he didn’t, then we shouldn’t continue the date. We were married 7 months later. About to celebrate 11 years together
2025-04-09 23:47:20
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Meag 💋 :
I'm not saying people have to get married quickly but if you don't know after 2 years; you're done. I knew I wanted to marry my fiancé 6 months in. Knowing and doing are different but I'm with Elise
2025-04-09 23:39:44
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Kerry Looby-Jacobs :
Elise didn't lie on the time factor, people know if they want to marry from a year on. OP took offence because SHE wants to marry and Luke doesn't despite his words. She will be looking at rings alone
2025-04-10 10:52:26
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nabi🦋 :
I get that the everyone is focusing on the logistics of the journey to getting married, and it is important, but it doesn't seem like OP and her partner were going in the same direction
2025-04-10 09:45:20
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acetonenails :
I'm shocked at these comments, if you can't see yourself being with someone until old age two years in then they're not the one.
2025-04-10 14:33:18
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lilyy🍉 :
I wouldn't wish a "go with the flow" guy on my enemy
2025-04-11 11:37:07
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Ali_bl :
Her friend is right, and that man doesn't even like her.
2025-04-10 21:15:21
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Kenia✨🐝🌻 :
My boyfriend and I are not ready, but we talk about it all the time, and we look at rings. (For fun) Her boyfriend couldn’t even entertain the idea.
2025-04-10 13:42:45
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katyperrytheplatapus :
Elise is a damn good friend
2025-04-10 15:09:18
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bryana :
so he just wasted her time. couldn't communicate with her sooner. poor girl was just a placeholder
2025-04-10 14:43:46
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Seleniiaaa._ :
3 years is long enough to know if you want to marry someonw or not. End of discussion. You dont need half a decade to find out you want to sign a contract.
2025-04-10 13:41:02
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Dean E. :
Yeah nope, you dont have to get married that fast 😂😂.If you think your friend is right, dump your bf and let him find better 🤣👌
2025-04-10 09:55:17
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V :
yes elise is moving quickly (imho) but the way Luke spoke about it/her demonstrates that he doesn't really care that much about her ngl
2025-04-10 10:23:51
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Cuteotaku :
He was 100% gonna break up with her after the completed his masters
2025-04-12 16:54:43
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🐸 :
3 years is too short for me idk 😭😭
2025-04-10 09:54:25
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bum bum doom :
wants the "right man" whatever that means and only gets to know them for ...2 years? yikes why are ppl so desperate to get married?
2025-04-11 01:34:09
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