@redditrave: My fiancé made a split-second decision that has cost me a year of my life, and even though I know it was an accident, I’m furious. Posted by u/AKHays101 Update (3:25) #reddit #redditstories #redditreadings #askreddit #redditrave
I don't like how OP keeps trying to dismiss her own extremely valid emotions, like, it'd be fucking WEIRD if she wasn't mad over this, she should be infuriated and feel those emotions not dismiss it
2025-04-11 22:21:30
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netaniaogawa :
I don’t think I could stay with that man. I’d have too much resentment.
2025-04-12 15:27:32
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J :
I'm glad she's making the decision to work through her emotions, but PERSONALLY speaking I could never stay. first because I'd think he didn't listen because he doesn't respect me enough to do so. secondly because I'd feel like the entire rs would be based on his guilt instead of his love and I'd never want to trap somebody like that.
2025-04-11 22:16:11
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Miyah ⋆˚꩜。 :
I get that it was a mistake but she has every right to be mad at this moment her life is on pause for a year or more and she could possible have complications in the future because of ts
2025-04-12 02:08:55
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no :
I'm heartbroken for her... and i understand why she's so bitter and angry at him. i also understand why she wants to stay... i hope she heals fully and doesn't have complications
2025-04-12 12:58:33
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Jackie Witt :
he just straight up wasn't listening, people don't misjudge oncoming cars that bad without blatantly not listening or paying attention
2025-04-13 14:40:45
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⛤𝔰𝔭𝔬𝔬𝔨𝔦_𝔟𝔞𝔟𝔦⛤ :
the fact the hospital didn't rx her any dme, sized her brace wrong, didn't even order a hospital bed for her or a hoyer lift is so negligent (my job is dme qualifications and processing lol)
2025-04-14 09:15:40
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Madison Farr :
I mean as long as OP’s fiancé is taken accountability, then I’m sure everything will be okay in the long run! Hope OP heals ❤️
2025-04-11 22:09:40
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_A.037_ :
He is NOT a good person for looking after her after HE played a serious part in her injuries, he’s doing the bare minimum as the person at fault/a husband, anything less would make him a bad person.
2025-04-19 01:35:20
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Sade Alexis :
I'd be angry too but if my partner reacted like hers did I'd stay too
2025-04-11 22:24:43
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Lookitsnene🧞♀️ :
She’s justified for how she feels. I wouldn’t leave I can believe he didn’t hear her. I see moments like these happen on a daily but fortunately for most ppl their quick decision doesn’t lead to horri
2025-04-12 15:02:32
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peelyoflannagan :
Man the American health care system sucks
2025-04-14 10:46:57
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⃟ :
I don’t understand blinking yellow light or the light was yellow and going to turn red.
2025-04-12 21:10:11
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朱静怡 :
thats why i hate when people dont respect speed limits stop signs or traffic lights. u arent invincible on the road. always drive like ur life is on the line not bc u want to get there 5 min quicker
2025-04-19 16:27:11
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Annastasia 🍓🍰🩷 :
That wasn’t a mistake. It was a choice to go.
2025-04-17 19:02:37
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Victor Des :
lady I have lived my life with chronic pain u now have chronic pain that could have been avoided, you get to be very very very angry just for the pain that will follow you for the rest of ur life.
2025-04-14 11:55:12
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🐀Bella🐀 :
why on earth is this man still behind the wheel?
2025-04-19 02:59:27
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rebeccagamerosb :
Am I the only one who thinks the fiancé did it in purpose? 👀
2025-05-15 05:48:09
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homeless :
they both sound really good for each other and I hope they make it through this.
2025-04-14 13:04:00
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emilync2001 :
Um this is unforgivable if he could have just waited for the light like this would build so much resentment if i was in this situation
2025-04-12 23:25:03
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Selena LH :
Can’t you sue the medical people?? That’s insane!
2025-05-27 12:36:59
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Cordelia Roybal :
My sister almost got unalived in this exact situation last year.
2025-05-17 02:38:21
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🌈rainbowbright🌈2.0 :
I don't think know if I could get past that. 💙
2025-04-12 18:00:07
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Jane D. :
Just don’t give him any of that settlement money.. he risked her life because he thought he knew better
2025-05-01 22:41:02
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my fucking back hurts 🎀 :
i felt this. we got T boned, i broke 5 places in my lower spine, my tibia, fibula, & ankle. i’m disabled now and STILL trying to figure life out ): my partner still feels guilty 💔 it’s been 1.5y
2025-04-14 07:48:36
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