@allissairving: Girls who have left— how did you know it was time to go? I do feel a weird sense of guilt about not loving it here anymore ❤️🩹 but I crave some more peace & quiet badly #nyc #nyclife #nycliving #leavingnyc
The summer shifts the energy tbh, may -Oct are great
2025-04-13 07:01:38
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احلام :
The longer im here the longer im like yeah i belong in california
2025-04-13 05:49:12
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Mari :
I left in my early 30s after 8 years. I missed nature - being from the west coast, I got tired of not having access to the outdoors (I’m talking about hiking and camping and mountains lol)
2025-04-14 17:18:01
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kat :
NYC can be very lonely and it’s high key very hard to make friends. Living here is romanticized A LOT on social media/in movies and that’s not real life—it can be very hard mentally & financially!!!
2025-04-13 23:55:07
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Maddy Humphreys :
New York is AMAZING for your 20s, but I found myself ready to leave when I started to get anxious, crave a more peaceful lifestyle + realized my priorities shift
2025-04-13 20:35:21
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Jillian :
I felt like that and moved to Park Slope in Brooklyn. It's very quiet and safe, and we're a 2 min walk from prospect park! Also I'm a huge homebody so if you're looking for an introverted friend 🙋🏻♀️
2025-04-13 14:27:56
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Andrew :
New York is great for a few years but it gets exhausting after a while
2025-04-13 13:38:11
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Wild Byte Trading :
same. idk if it’s the city or being in my early 30s which is why i don’t know if a new place would help. but my current fantasy is a quiet coffee shop on a weekend morning near the beach
2025-04-13 00:22:17
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Angelica :
Sometimes you outgrow a place and a change is needed. I can relate to what you’re feeling
2025-06-05 17:51:29
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Denise Julia :
I think it’s bc people get stuck in the romanticized version of nyc. This is coming from a native NY’er. For us it’s balance, i live in a quiet area, no tourists at all but 15 mins from manhattan
2025-04-13 14:47:05
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Stephanie Dunbar :
I moved here when I was 23, fresh out of school. I was SO excited and when I moved here it was not what I expected or hoped for. Made it work, struggled and still struggle, can’t imagine leaving
2025-05-03 04:50:59
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sssswhitey :
I feel this so hard. The best city in the world, but I look around and realize this isn’t the life I want anymore 💔 time for the next chapter
2025-04-13 13:25:04
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Car :
I’m moving in a month! My dream was to live here and I did three years, but I’m genuinely so unhappy. Everything is so expensive and it’s a tough lifestyle.
2025-04-13 14:27:45
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mollyinbrooklyn :
Do u live in Manhattan or Brooklyn?? I am obsessed w Brooklyn &have found such a good community in my neighborhood. It’s much slower pace and greener. Happy to chat more about this if u want to dm🫶
2025-04-14 15:55:11
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Molly :
Should we start a NYC couch rotting club? Coffee and rot is literally all I care about this weekend
2025-04-13 13:15:51
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Faith :
I felt exactly like this and have been soooo happy since moving to Santa Monica a few months ago
2025-04-13 22:05:21
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Hayden :
Just moved to prospect heights after feeling burned out and too-social from the city pls recommend tips on relaxing your lifestyle in your 20s!
2025-06-04 04:17:17
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jojosiwa69420 :
girl move to brooklyn
2025-04-13 22:25:57
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hannah detwiler :
feel this so so hard! let’s get coffee!
2025-04-13 00:17:46
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Mic :
Moving in a month after 9 years. This is how I felt like when the burden outweighs the benefits of NYC it’s time to go
2025-04-13 20:09:36
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Markie Kate :
NYC was my dream since I was 5. Lived there for 9 years but knew at the 5th ish year it wasn’t aligning anymore. Same thoughts. But once I got out it felt so right. I still mourn it from time to time
2025-04-13 18:21:54
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IamCollieG :
If you’re feeling like this - it’s time to go. I’ve lived here 7 years and started feeling this way 6 months ago. Leaving in July. It’s too expensive of a city to not be thriving in it
2025-04-13 12:57:24
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Lili :
Move to Miami
2025-04-14 02:30:04
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kenneyyyyyynn :
I lived in nyc pre-covid and HATED it. Moved to FL. Adored FL. It healed me. But now am back in nyc happier with it than ever. It’s ok to have different seasons w nyc and honor those feelings 🥰
2025-04-14 03:34:18
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James :
Lived in NYC my whole life and left a month ago it’s not just a transplant thing
2025-04-13 19:56:39
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