@mindmagicwithtaylor: People with anxious attachment can unconsciously create distance to seek closeness. It’s counterintuitive, but breaking up can be an emotional protest — a way to try and force a strong emotional response from the other person to feel like they “care” This can also look like ignoring the other person for periods of time so they can “chase” you. But here’s the trap, if the person doesn’t chase, the anxious person may spiral into deeper pain, feeling unwanted or abandoned — even if they were the one who walked away. Because it wasn’t really about leaving… it was about getting a need met. Follow for more ❤️‍🩹 1:1 Guidance Available in Bio #fyp #foryoupage #healing #HealingJourney #innerchild #psychology #codependency #viral #anxiousattachment #CapCut

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jls507
probablyyourmom :
Can confirm he did not chase 😭
2025-04-18 16:22:21
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ramerkay
Ramerkay :
God forbid a man respect your decision 😅
2025-04-19 16:22:33
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buckeyeupnorth
Joe voelz :
Here’s a concept, just tell him how you feel and that you need him
2025-04-18 15:17:56
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brooke___irene
brooke___irene :
If he makes you feel like you have to do this leave...
2025-04-21 21:40:03
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stephanie0201
Steph 🌹 :
Well damn — the for you page really said FOR YOU LOL.
2025-04-17 21:25:00
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mrhyan1017
Magen :
yeah, our attachment style sucks...but we're also choosing partners that trigger our attachment style. They aren't healed either. Like calls to like. 😂
2025-04-19 03:15:01
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ms.nadineocgmail.com
Ms.Nadine♥️ :
They respond with “ok” lol
2025-04-17 21:29:05
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blueskittles4
blueskittles4 :
Facts.. Self-sabotoge. It comes from a fear of being rejected/hurt and needing affirmation. Sadly this never works to receive what you actually need.
2025-04-19 00:58:19
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joyfulenvisions
joyfulenvisions :
And then you only get “okay” lol
2025-04-19 16:36:03
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mariachristina2789
Maria Christina :
I blocked him, before hearing his response. 😅
2025-04-18 20:56:08
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karinnagaliindo
🧿🪬Karyy🪬🧿 :
Did this he’s an avoidant too, I’ve been blocked for 3 months! 🤣🤣
2025-04-19 00:44:14
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kristi_ft
kristi_ft :
I’m so tired of being called out daily
2025-04-17 22:15:46
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siren.xo_
kat☆ :
I did this n we broke up 😭 haven’t spoken in a week
2025-04-17 18:33:41
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whyareyoustalkingme21
SuperDeathReaper6000DeathBeast :
You is NOT the victim in this one
2025-04-21 07:41:02
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6.4s1
6.4S :
If you truly have a good man with respect and boundaries you’re playing with fire there lol. You’re gonna lose a good one to an “ok” response.
2025-04-19 13:29:22
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mia.alma.music
Mia Alma :
I specifically worked against my nature and chose not to do this today lol
2025-04-19 14:35:32
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jcjw1996_
JC :
Be needy with him. If he actually cares about you he will love it.
2025-04-23 04:28:34
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grandepiinkdrink
lola 🍋‍🟩 :
it never works
2025-04-19 17:08:08
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gnosisanon
GnosisAnon :
I’m not even seeking attention, but this truly describes me 100% and I realize it and it is really affecting me. Why can’t I just find another anxious attachment like myself .
2025-04-22 00:52:22
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melissadanielle26
Melissa Danielle :
You neverrrr do that with that intention omg!!
2025-04-18 03:25:36
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knightmare1027
🐉🔫Forrest🐯🌶☁️🚴‍♂️ :
had a girl do this and then she was mad cause I listened to what she wanted and responded with not talking.
2025-04-23 14:11:46
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yurks91
yurks :
So toxic. Stay strong kings.
2025-05-15 17:39:21
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sm0keyth3b3ar
Smokey The Bear :
got to be worth chasing...enjoy 😂😂
2025-04-22 19:38:30
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kitkit0117
✨ :
he replied "okay" and now I'm single 😭
2025-04-24 11:38:24
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