@mindmagicwithtaylor: People with anxious attachment can unconsciously create distance to seek closeness. It’s counterintuitive, but breaking up can be an emotional protest — a way to try and force a strong emotional response from the other person to feel like they “care” This can also look like ignoring the other person for periods of time so they can “chase” you. But here’s the trap, if the person doesn’t chase, the anxious person may spiral into deeper pain, feeling unwanted or abandoned — even if they were the one who walked away. Because it wasn’t really about leaving… it was about getting a need met. Follow for more ❤️🩹 1:1 Guidance Available in Bio #fyp #foryoupage #healing #HealingJourney #innerchild #psychology #codependency #viral #anxiousattachment #CapCut
Here’s a concept, just tell him how you feel and that you need him
2025-04-18 15:17:56
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brooke___irene :
If he makes you feel like you have to do this leave...
2025-04-21 21:40:03
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Steph 🌹 :
Well damn — the for you page really said FOR YOU LOL.
2025-04-17 21:25:00
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Magen :
yeah, our attachment style sucks...but we're also choosing partners that trigger our attachment style. They aren't healed either. Like calls to like. 😂
2025-04-19 03:15:01
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Ms.Nadine♥️ :
They respond with “ok” lol
2025-04-17 21:29:05
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blueskittles4 :
Facts.. Self-sabotoge. It comes from a fear of being rejected/hurt and needing affirmation. Sadly this never works to receive what you actually need.
2025-04-19 00:58:19
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joyfulenvisions :
And then you only get “okay” lol
2025-04-19 16:36:03
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Maria Christina :
I blocked him, before hearing his response. 😅
2025-04-18 20:56:08
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🧿🪬Karyy🪬🧿 :
Did this he’s an avoidant too, I’ve been blocked for 3 months! 🤣🤣
2025-04-19 00:44:14
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kristi_ft :
I’m so tired of being called out daily
2025-04-17 22:15:46
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kat☆ :
I did this n we broke up 😭 haven’t spoken in a week
2025-04-17 18:33:41
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SuperDeathReaper6000DeathBeast :
You is NOT the victim in this one
2025-04-21 07:41:02
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6.4S :
If you truly have a good man with respect and boundaries you’re playing with fire there lol. You’re gonna lose a good one to an “ok” response.
2025-04-19 13:29:22
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Mia Alma :
I specifically worked against my nature and chose not to do this today lol
2025-04-19 14:35:32
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JC :
Be needy with him. If he actually cares about you he will love it.
2025-04-23 04:28:34
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lola 🍋🟩 :
it never works
2025-04-19 17:08:08
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GnosisAnon :
I’m not even seeking attention, but this truly describes me 100% and I realize it and it is really affecting me. Why can’t I just find another anxious attachment like myself .
2025-04-22 00:52:22
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Melissa Danielle :
You neverrrr do that with that intention omg!!
2025-04-18 03:25:36
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🐉🔫Forrest🐯🌶☁️🚴♂️ :
had a girl do this and then she was mad cause I listened to what she wanted and responded with not talking.
2025-04-23 14:11:46
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yurks :
So toxic. Stay strong kings.
2025-05-15 17:39:21
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Smokey The Bear :
got to be worth chasing...enjoy 😂😂
2025-04-22 19:38:30
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✨ :
he replied "okay" and now I'm single 😭
2025-04-24 11:38:24
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