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lissarem12
Dr. Melissa M :
My parents never corrected her, but always correct me and encourage me to be the bigger person and peacemaker instead of creating balance. My parents created this and wanted me to fix their mistakes.
2025-04-20 16:20:52
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_nnamahlangu_
_nnamahlangu_ :
Our parents are to blame 😏
2025-04-19 11:36:23
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serson53
Serson🤎 :
What’s more crippling is when parents be singing ‘you’re sisters’ but never speaks up on the injustice 😒
2025-04-18 22:18:44
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achaira1
two_smokedpoppys_ :
I saw this quote a while back and it helped me a lot, as I also struggled with this: Stop overplaying your role- deal with people how they deal with you: hardly, barely and accordingly.
2025-04-19 11:57:50
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sugarcloud96
sugarcloud96 :
My sister has been awful to me my entire life i finally stopped talking to her a few years ago. Don’t miss her
2025-04-19 00:56:11
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tashannasimmons48
Anna :
I don’t fix things I leave them as they are
2025-04-18 22:03:07
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charlies_shoppe
Charlie’s SHOPPE :
My parents have promoted dysfunction in the family. Mom has favorites, 2/3 are her faves. Narc Dad, enabler passive Mom. My sibs do not have an ounce of compassion in their system, all superficial.
2025-04-19 10:10:03
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kyandi80
kyandi80 :
This! Trying to fix a 1sided relationship is only enabling sh*tty behavior
2025-04-19 21:25:54
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awesometv.com
awesometv.com :
No matter how much you’ve changed and grown they don’t see your growth they still have the outdated version of who they think you are. Move on cause they’ll drag people to hate you with them!
2025-04-19 04:26:45
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ineedadvice138
Ineedadvice :
And the parents that act like it’s none of their business
2025-05-04 06:42:55
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flippingpolly
Polly 🇳🇿 :
I learned this forever ago. Not everyone is in your corner.
2025-04-18 21:42:24
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zee.loves.u
Zee.Loves.U :
Oh hey looks like I found my people. I thought this was only my lived reality. Did everyone also have parents that compared you and your sibling alot which probably messed up their psyche?
2025-04-19 01:42:07
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ithinkihealedtoohard
I Think I Healed Too Hard :
My mother isn’t responsible for my sister not liking me but she is responsible for how she handles the drama that comes from it. We are all grown women but not all act that way!
2025-04-19 12:25:16
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chefsalama108
Salamaebrahim :
They don’t want you to progress in life
2025-04-21 07:32:17
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healthy._mom
healthy._mom :
I thought siblings rivalry happens only during childhood but it goes on to adulthood 😫 it's hard to fix adult siblings, especially when they don't change their behaviour or willing to change.
2025-04-19 07:32:11
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aquawoman___
Aqua Woman :
this hurts so much..Sibling estrangement hurts so much. God I'm so grateful other people are going through similar things I've never cried this much over anything or anyone else
2025-04-20 03:02:00
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pumpkinlove1991
Forest Hadley :
I feel so saddened with this
2025-09-24 09:49:19
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thetequilarose
Sativafieldz :
This is why I don't reach out
2025-04-19 15:58:14
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rae77880
rae77880 :
My baby sister did me SO dirty. As much as I miss her & want to reconcile, I refuse to fix what I didn’t break.
2025-04-20 16:13:48
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kali_kudukka
kali_kudukka :
As an older sister I forgave and forget too many times. Went back too many times. Not anymore.
2025-04-20 02:41:48
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chamikattepi
cham ikat tepi :
Went no contact after my mum died. The best part, I grew from the things they put me through and they are exactly where I left them
2025-04-19 02:36:17
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joyfusvnid4
FuckThePatriarchy :
Took me 51 years to realize my only sibling hated me & always has!
2025-04-20 16:23:49
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lovealltrustafewwrongnot
NothingButLove4U :
Narcissistic and emotionally immature parents create this problem.
2025-04-21 14:01:00
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issatgirlthing
Tamara Baby :
My mom always says "you're the older one, you have not reached out to your younger sister" but she's the one who stopped replying me and I stopped teaching out...and then the constant on comparison
2025-04-19 09:06:30
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