@kylies.muse: Incoming: people offering me a poor mistranslation of 4:34. No thank you! I’ve already put in time to studying scholarly consensus on the proper context and translation of the word “waidribuhunna” which has multiple meanings. In this verse, the proper understanding would be to separate from them. Don’t forget - Muhammad never laid a hand on a woman and even said “the best of you are those who are best to their wives.”