This is painfully accurate.. you know it’s going to be exhausting so you learn to not even bring certain things up
2025-04-21 22:22:54
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Joules :
It goes off anytime you bring up your needs or something they’ve done to upset you 🙄💯
2025-04-21 17:53:53
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Megan :
This is the best metaphors I've heard for narcissistic abuse. It's not that we don't know we're being mistreated, it's that we're so overwhelmed we can only focus on that moment's "car alarm"
2025-04-22 01:06:41
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Username :
Oh this is EXCELLENT
2025-04-21 16:19:38
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goyalekg37v :
psychologists know nothing about narcissism 🙄 don't trust them 😒
2025-04-22 20:07:38
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🌷Dani🌷 :
This is what it was like. Walking on egg shells and trying to make sure I didn't set him off, and apologizing for bringing up his mistakes and behaviors because bringing them up made him upset.
2025-04-21 17:41:23
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Whatever :
I caved so many times just for temporary peace 😭
2025-04-22 21:44:05
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TheNarcAssistCorner :
Great description of narcissistic abuse! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2025-04-22 01:28:46
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cocoa_barbi33 :
The “car alarm” scenario makes me run. Narcissistic behaviors should be treated like a threat. Abandon empathy and run for your life.
2025-04-22 21:31:38
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LaShawnda Smith :
Wow, never heard it explained better. I was never able to deal with my traumas due to always having to take care of his emotions.
2025-04-21 22:19:44
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sandykms1 :
The alarm = gaslighting
2025-04-21 20:11:52
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Notyourrehab :
YES! Me being upset at his behavior was the whole problem. Not his behavior being bad or amoral
2025-04-23 15:54:04
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Marley :
Say what you will, but they have the upper hand and and get away with it. As soon as you gain control and power over them they cower like babies. I’ve seen it.
2025-04-23 15:34:18
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Lilac and Lyrics :
Constantly in a state of flight or fight.
2025-04-23 22:48:32
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8 :
They create chaos for us to deal with, this how they drain our energy and make us go into hiper vigilance
2025-04-23 02:43:03
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Cindy 🇨🇦 :
This perfectly describes my experience with my now ex. I could just feel it coming…something would shift and I’d have to start prepping/trying to stop what inevitably would come next.
2025-04-22 14:37:51
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Mary Wachs ☼ :
like even if you don't believe their gaslighting but you still get caught i to arguing against their circular arguments and poor behaviors
2025-04-22 22:17:54
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Bye :
She controlled me with clinginess. Ruined my friendships. Made friends with all my friends. Invited herself to everything I did. Would moan constantly if I ever did anything alone or for myself.
2025-04-21 19:08:12
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NS :
That’s why many Run Away (out of the parking lot) Away from the Narcissist 😂🤪
2025-04-21 16:22:27
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Marta :
Omg this is PRECISELY the feeling. Just do whatever to calm him down, say what he wants to hear, satisfy him so that he leaves everyone alone and there would be some peace and quiet in the house.
2025-04-21 22:50:03
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LaSullivan :
I literally told him he was an hammer...I felt it in my stomach, at some point I started thinking "what is it? What did I do wrong this time?"
2025-04-21 20:40:17
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1111 :
This is facts love this description
2025-04-21 20:46:08
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user1795481439098 :
OMG! This.
2025-04-21 16:33:41
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