@kylie.brewer: In college, there was a guy who would prey on Asian women at parties… There’s a huge difference between a fetish and a preference 💔 #education #dating #antiracism #protectwomen #intersectionalfeminism
I say all racial preferences are fetishization. ETHNICITY preferences are not. Because race is purely based on appearance. Ethnicity is based on culture/heritage.
2025-04-22 19:06:54
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nyverden_real :
Hot people are hot people, dammit!
2025-04-23 00:42:41
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irdc…. :
Racial preferences are so weird to me like why are you only going after someone because of their race????
2025-04-23 01:36:21
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e_ak8 :
Yes! 💯 All people from within the same race are not a monolith! We aren’t 🌽 categories, we’re each unique individuals!
2025-05-03 17:03:07
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Lili :
I could never explain why this makes me uncomfortable, but now I can thank you! 🙌
2025-04-22 13:10:39
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ம :
I think racial preferences are inherently racist. if u ask them why you don't like a specific race, they'll start listing reasons such as just their features and skin color like that's not racist 😭✌️
2025-04-23 14:13:57
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yermle :
Do people actually do this
2025-04-22 13:13:10
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Cooper :
Racial preference isn’t really a thing in my opinion… you are either attracted to features more common in one race but if that feature shows up in a person not in that race they’re still attractive, or your a fetishizer
2025-04-22 23:33:12
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Sebaphira :
Getting fetishized is crazy 😭😭😭
2025-04-22 19:30:55
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✃ grave ꉂ :
I've never understood "racial preferences" in general, ANYONE can be attractive and their race shouldn't matter
2025-04-24 13:18:00
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Niko :
My ex was Vietnamese and one thing I did was learn to make porridge when she was sick bc it was her equivalent to chicken noodle soup. If you’re gonna date across cultures, please try to learn theirs
2025-04-23 23:11:50
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holly <3 :
it’s infuriating trying to have this conversation as an asian woman
2025-04-23 00:00:01
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Blasian :
my wife is chinese we met in Los Angeles she is a school teacher I love chinese culture I speak mandarin and German we live in china now. We fell in love naturally we have 3 grown children.
2025-05-11 09:41:21
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Soda :
tbh i feel like any racial preference can be a slippery slope especially when it comes to a white person preferring poc since fetishization can be subtle in some cases
2025-04-23 10:10:45
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SquirrelLawson :
I had this conversation not long ago and agree entirely 🫶Great video.
2025-04-22 13:11:56
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ネオンゼット :
Wish my ex understood that being a black woman doesn’t mean you can strip me from my culture and see me as an object
2025-04-22 21:11:48
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Sydney :
Racial preferences are so odd anyways. It's all based around stereotypes
2025-05-12 07:36:27
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Journey_to_be_me :
Yes! Brilliant breakdown 🫶
2025-04-22 14:39:54
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Jln :
Imo a racial preference is still weird like wdym people are comfortable saying they're into "light skin black men" like ???????????
2025-04-23 03:21:10
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ThaRula480T :
lots of people don't even know it's a fetish
2025-04-25 13:07:48
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Leavemealoneplzz :
Thank you for bringing this up, everytime an Asian woman speaks up on this they get harassed in their comments
2025-04-22 18:54:11
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(⌒‐⌒) :
question: Is it wrong that ppl i like tend to lean towards a certain race because of they just have features I like? Like I think monolids are attractive and they happen to be more abundant with Asian
2025-04-23 03:02:31
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paola :
Racial preferences are weird, I do have ethnicity preferences though just because of cultural and language similarities
2025-04-23 03:28:25
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Cahara :
My preference is woman in general (6’ btw)
2025-04-22 19:38:02
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Braidy :
I think a cultural preference which isn’t really about race is different than a racial preference.
2025-04-22 20:37:24
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