100% think access is NOT granted just because you’re in a relationship. I have locked notes on my phone because I enjoy writing and that’s my personal space. I think if it gets to a point that
2025-04-23 09:53:39
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missandei94 :
If I were in a serious relationship, they’d have unfettered access to my phone I’d probably program their face in. But if I asked them not to look at X for Y reason, I’d expect them to honor that
2025-04-23 16:48:19
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jen :
I def agree that access to a person’s phone should not be an assumed “given” in a relationship. A conversation needs to be had about it, full stop.
2025-04-23 05:56:13
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JahJahHenny :
If I’m in a relationship idc if my partner has my phone password cuz I ain’t doin nothin interesting on there, but if they DEMAND access or go through my phone that’s a red flag. Breakin up immediately
2025-05-14 01:25:58
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Dan Kavanaugh :
thank you for sharing your thoughts about this :) gives me a lot to think about
2025-04-23 14:13:57
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Alyssa :
ur eyes are so pretty but also i think it’s wrong to go through ur partners phone but my best friend thinks it’s it’s IMPERATIVE like not just okay but like needed.. weird how people differ
2025-04-23 06:22:27
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negus_ismy_fuckingname :
It depends. Because there was a situation where I just wanted to search something and they freaked out on me like I was a stranger.
2025-04-23 15:13:20
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anna :
I absolutely agree with you! I think everyone is entitled to privacy with their phones & having total access to a partners phone is unethical & if it feels necessary, the relationship is already over
2025-04-23 05:42:11
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🐈⬛✨🩷🤍🧡 🇨🇦 :
I don't bother going through the phone, if the trust is gone it's gone. And there's a lot of ways to hide things
2025-04-24 07:08:35
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SheMoansTacos :
everyone I've ever been with has 100 percent access to my phone and has my passcode. i just don't like it if they do it without letting me know. I have nothing to hide but i still would like to know
2025-04-23 23:48:03
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tiredbutmylo :
I agree! I always stood strong on never needing to go through her phone. After 3 years my gut lead me the thought of checking her phone. Unfortunately it was right and she was cheating on me for mths.
2025-04-23 06:16:53
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DF :
i dont wanna go through your phone but i gladly give my phone to anyone anytime. i dont know the psychology behind it, because i feel uncomfortable using someone else's phone even if they're there.
2025-04-23 07:59:17
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V :
Privacy is important and should be respected. In the past, I didn't care because I had nothing to hide. Nowadays, I don't let anyone just access my phone because of work data on there. If she reacts negatively even after I tell her it's because of work, it's over immediately.
2025-05-19 14:52:31
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Llyss :
It is for sure an invasion of privacy. But the relationship is done the second I feel like I need to search someones phone
2025-05-21 00:20:47
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LaChulupa :
My ex used to look through my phone and I didn’t know. I think I should be able to have my own relationships with my friends and family without you knowing everything
2025-04-25 04:12:40
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obsessivelemon :
100% agree. it's like reading spmeone else's diary. my ex also cheated. never went through phones. if you're gonna lie to my face, I don't need the full truth. the lie is enough
2025-04-23 05:46:26
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Kayla :
I feel like if you need to see all of your partner’s messages, then the relationship is built off of distrust
2025-04-23 21:46:12
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