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Region: NL
Wednesday 23 April 2025 09:16:48 GMT
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M@rcologne 🇳🇱 :
Good point. Some of us Dutchies need to be more considerate of other cultures approach to other people.
2025-04-23 18:01:43
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Armand Nur Rahman♠🪽 :
Not my Indonesian mom tho. I think she was Dutch in past life.
2025-05-06 11:29:13
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Solano :
Dutch people mistake lack of empathy and manners with directness. So there’s that
2025-04-23 10:42:25
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Roxana 🦋 :
If it was really being direct, they would be able to handle it as well when someone is direct to them, but unfortunately everytime I’m direct back they have an error and collapse 🤷🏻♀️
2025-04-23 15:29:27
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Ginney Noa :
Indonesian mom + Dutch dad = best of both worlds, polite & being kind mixed with being direct & setting boundaries 💖
2025-04-24 08:29:09
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leentjelecomte :
To all dutchies, let’s be more gentle ✨
2025-04-23 20:42:19
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Bang Kumis :
there's directness in Indonesia too it's just in the form of "kok gendutan" or "cepat nikah nanti keburu tua" etc 😅🤣
2025-04-24 06:11:57
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MainStreet Tales :
Both parents from Indonesia, but I am born & raised in the Netherlands.. love the gentleness, the caring & the kindness! But I dislike it when my parents can’t confront someone immediately.. so much
2025-04-24 20:02:42
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Nienke - Eilandleven 🌺🐠🌴 :
As a Dutch girl living in Indonesia: I have to ask my husband all the time: Sayang, I want to say this BUT can you tell me if it’s culturally appropriate? 🙈
2025-04-24 07:00:08
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🦌 deer :
im indonesian having dutch boyfriend. and im super direct. more direct than him . he is shocked because my parents taught me to always speak my mind🥰
2025-05-06 05:21:56
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「 ｃｉｎｄｙ 」 :
off topic but your face looks literally ethereal (like this song)
2025-04-23 17:03:46
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Chinnnnnnnn :
But when you became direct they’ll change the way they see you lol
2025-05-06 07:57:27
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s7onersl0 :
Why are we like this 😭 I hate being too kind I wish I can be rude & direct like them too
2025-04-24 17:00:59
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Hung :
Me as a Dutchie, in Bali now: direct can still be polite. With business, Indonesian people don’t say “no” directly, even though it’s a no. Just say no so we can think about other options.
2025-05-09 19:02:56
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Nvt :
I was born and raised in NL. and believe me, the “directness” of the older generation is just being rude. I would say that the younger generations are more balanced and most are quite friendly
2025-04-25 05:25:23
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Richard Macrae :
Tapi kak, aku lebih nyaman ngomong direct🤣🤣🤣. Walaupun dikelilingi dengan orang yg takut nyakitin perasaan orang
2025-04-24 06:03:28
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3na :
I love indonesian people.❤️
2025-04-29 08:03:40
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livingabroaddiary :
Sama di jerman jg gitu kak. Apalagi bbrp dialek tuh nadanya tinggi pdhal itu mereka ngomong biasa tp aku nangkepnya kek mereka marah2 gitu loh😭💔
2025-04-25 05:36:55
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Ana Savu :
❤️you are the nicest people I swear! ✨
2025-04-25 07:19:56
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Charlotte :
As a dutchie I think I am more Indonesian😂 Luckily I live in Dubai now with a lot of Asian people. The world is a lot more beautiful with kind people, so just stay the way you are ❤️
2025-04-26 06:21:17
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David Cahyono :
puting yourself first is a very Western mindset. Living in the West will change you indefinitely. Becoming more Individualistic is mot only a plus
2025-04-24 10:16:56
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amaia221378 :
I fear being here has made me lose some of my niceness :/
2025-04-24 16:21:53
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Saskia Schagen :
Not all dutch people are like that,have a beautiful day ❤️
2025-04-24 07:25:14
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christina :
❤️good for you angel! 100% agreed
2025-04-26 08:26:27
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Cantik di Belanda :
so lucky if u from bataknese bcoz Batak also direct people 😁😂 that's match with dutch people
2025-05-05 15:44:45
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