@reddit5518: For my graduation, they left a frozen pizza on the counter and sent a "Congrats" text in the family group chat. A week earlier, they threw my brother a backyard bash with fireworks and a drone photographer. When I asked why, my mom shrugged, "You're not really the celebrating type." I didn't reply. I didn't eat. I just grabbed my bag and walked out the door. That night, my aunt texted: "Why's everyone freaking out?"