@thechrishinton: Real love isn’t about finding someone who never triggers you. It’s about becoming strong enough to stay anchored when they do. If you’re still waiting for someone to save you, maybe it’s time to save yourself first. Drop a comment and tell me — where do you still see the Eternal Boy or Eternal Girl alive inside you? I’ll go first…#h#HealingJourneys#selfawarenessi#innerworke#emotionalhealingr#relationshipadvicea#anchoryourselfp#puereternusp#puellaeternac#consciousrelationshipss#selfgrowtha#attachmentstylest#traumarecoverys#shadowworke#emotionalintelligencem#mirrorworkb#becomingamantiktoktherapy
You’re quickly becoming one of my favorite creators on here. Thank you for the videos you make, I appreciate you. 🌹
2025-04-27 20:20:42
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emmzmum :
Agreed. My healing really began when I realized I am responsible for my own self. No one outside of me including my partner can be responsible for me.
2025-04-28 04:56:07
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🌺Sandi.L.8888🍀 :
You make yourself feel whole. You cannot place the burden of making you whole on someone else.
2025-04-29 00:07:28
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White-Lotus555 :
Feeling safe in your relationship is important for both M and F. And why stay with someone you don't feel safe with?
2025-04-28 07:40:35
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arcenia777 :
Triggers are absolutely a mirror of where we are not showing up for ourselves. They are shining light on the shadows lurking within. This becomes an opportunity to dive within & treat our own wounds.
2025-04-28 02:38:40
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Gingerbstrong :
It has taken me a lot of therapy to realize that I don’t need anyone to complete me!
2025-04-27 18:54:28
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LM 💕 :
anchor myself first
2025-04-27 19:37:30
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The Crochet Lady :
Find true inner peace within yourself. It’s amazing!!!!!
2025-04-28 01:24:51
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Cindydj04 :
Your words are so helpful. I say in my head over&over, we listen with our trauma not our ears. I also tell myself, we see with our trauma not our eyes as well.
2025-04-27 20:57:04
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I AM :
Yes 🎯
All men feel way safer now that I am anchored and grounded in my own self love. No one can take anything away from me.
If fear comes up....I've got me.. .I comfort me..I love me ♥️
2025-04-28 17:15:23
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jader2123 :
no longer feeling let down. no longer being hurt. I never wanted to die alone but then I realized we all die alone. so what's the point?
2025-04-27 19:58:06
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CLW :
I need to work on my avoidant ways. I avoid dealing with emotional things in my life. I believe this started in my teens, and now I think I avoid making decisions that I feel will leave me alone.
2025-04-27 19:29:59
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Kate J. :
So glad I found you. Book arrives tomorrow and then I’ll schedule a consult with you after I read it.
2025-04-27 21:53:03
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Chrystal Ainsworth :
Can you address over sharing in a relationship. If I’m open vulnerable and honest it seems to cause big problems. What is ok to share and what is not. I’m truly searching for this answer and I follow
2025-04-27 20:58:07
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ITSANITABEAT :
I am an anxious avoidant. I overthink and create scenarios that don't exist. I am currently trying to use a polyamous relationship to identify and address the trauma trigger that comes up...do you think this is a wise choice to make..?
Feedback is welcomed....
2025-06-26 19:51:24
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Thillaxj7 :
Why does it feel so easy to close your heart off to everyone that’s similar to what hurt you and it feels almost impossible to open it back up sometimes why is it like this?
2025-07-10 09:50:30
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Bethany Daniel :
My previous marriage was abusive to the point I’ve been diagnosed with PTSD and after listening to you I see I was looking for someone to make me feel safe, seen, and loved. I met my husband now who made me feel all of that and then he cheated on me with multiple women and now I don’t know how to heal from this.
2025-07-09 14:21:24
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sooperbob :
Hell yeah!
2025-04-27 19:13:10
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jader2123 :
I wonder if what u say is true. Why then have a partner? I wanted to find someone strong, safe, help me thru life, and then us help others. I feel stronger now not being without anyone. FINALLY PEACE.
2025-04-27 19:57:10
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Kelly :
Your book isn’t available in Canada 😢
2025-04-29 01:29:37
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Beverly Moodley :
Thank you for your videos. today was the first day I saw your video. I was going through a tough time mentally and it was the video about asking who we want to be and took your advice and that video saved me from myself. Thank you 🙏
2025-06-19 17:32:13
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Dani Pepper :
Would you be willing to talk about boundaries and how to ask your partner to set boundaries with people or for one’s self
2025-05-23 18:01:45
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Francine Mendomo :
Listening to you doesn’t trigger me as it would have before. Taking time and years to work on me was so rewarding ❤️
2025-05-05 18:04:03
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Heidijo :
No true adults, only small children hit me hard. I get it. Thank you for that.
2025-05-02 02:36:27
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rjayzzz58 :
This is sooooo good, and true. I can so relate to this. Thank you for sharing. 🙌🏼🙌🏼
2025-04-27 21:02:12
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