@drjondabach: 📸 : @dianaprimecoaching Stop threatening to break up every time you argue. It’s not getting you what you want, and here’s why: 1️⃣ You’re doing it because you feel unheard & dismissed 2️⃣ Threatening breakups don’t fix the issue, it just escalates things 3️⃣ Instead of vague feelings, get specific: “I’d like 30 minutes tonight where we talk without distractions” Being clear about what you need gets you WAY better results than ultimatums. #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipAdvice #SaveYourMarriage #HealthyRelationships #TherapistTips

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crystal_darker
Crystal Darker :
Probably because the girl knows deep down she will leave him
2025-05-02 14:43:50
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user6997453612291
HappilyStupid :
We say specific things, like "hey, could you please put your clothes in the basket", but nothing changes
2025-05-01 14:07:57
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acidrain83
AcidRain :
My ex threatened to break up a couple of times. Told him "there's the door" then he'd just pretend he never said it bc his manipulation tactic didn’t work. I never threaten. I just end it.
2025-05-03 16:01:33
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safffof
saff1 :
it doesn't matter how you dress it they don't listen.
2025-05-07 11:10:23
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aguilar1993
Alyce Aguilar :
Wow, thanks you give me a lot to think about
2025-06-12 12:57:14
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kathyhand
Kathy 💓 💓 💓 :
my husband did that broke up with me loads I ended up taken him seriously n then he called me cheating
2025-05-06 19:34:09
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user004989898
Frank Castle :
control. the partner who is Least committed, have the most power
2025-04-30 14:52:49
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lee445420
lee :
I would just say there's the door 🚪
2025-05-04 01:33:24
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kelliebleu
kellie :
I'm not one for threats, il walk away like I never even knew you
2025-05-03 19:35:24
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nelez07
Nele :
what if you say it because you're starting to feel tired and are considering to leave.
2025-05-11 14:17:48
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tranter.d4
undead-dad 🧟‍♂️ :
they do it for a rise 🙄
2025-05-02 17:26:33
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ken.ryan12
ken ryan :
Maybe we need to start calling their bluff 😎
2025-05-01 20:38:59
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rubipat1
rubipat1 :
sounds too exhausting all that talking, single is such a bliss. 😂😂
2025-04-30 21:11:07
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i.am.me224
me🇨🇦 :
and then when you do walk out the door he is all apologetic you don't take us seriously
2025-05-23 21:10:57
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mimi932011
Mimi :
Ok but last week I specifically told him not to do this one thing again and today - a week later - he did it again. 😭
2025-05-04 22:39:10
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tomzzzzzzzzz
Thomas Wells :
in my experience, starting fights over the same or similar things usually means that thing is unreasonable. hollow threats to breakup are a sign of this.its just a method of control
2025-05-03 13:47:07
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laurenmondo
LAUREN Mondo :
I dont condone threatening to break up, but why should an adult have to be spoken to like a toddler! we are adults and i shouldn't have to talk to you like one of our children. 🙄
2025-05-02 22:50:19
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hello.joe27
hello joe :
any time your partner says its over it should be over. don't let them say it more than once
2025-06-17 21:46:42
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surroundedbydumb
ttyl :
just because you want it doesn't mean you get it
2025-04-29 01:53:28
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philippamai
Philippa :
@LibbyLou1313
2025-05-01 21:02:01
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tungstensharpener
paulmattox1 :
😭
2025-05-01 11:10:21
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kirstiesanimalwonderland
Kirstie’s animal wonderland :
😁😁😁
2025-05-14 19:27:15
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mountain_lion555
Steve Sims :
My wife has caused serious damage by doing this even after I asked her to stop threats. Now we can be doing ok but I am always waiting for he other shoe to drop ..and forget about intimacy/s_x
2025-04-30 22:43:09
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sushiflora2
sushiflora :
Naa, why do u thing women gets mad at men coz they were not heard. …
2025-04-30 19:14:11
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